Comments on: Ask A Guy: Why Do Guys Like Lesbians? http://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies A teen site and community for teenage girls Fri, 24 May 2013 18:28:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Dudehttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-334656 Dude Thu, 24 Jan 2013 09:03:25 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-334656 “They’ll likely lose interest when they get older and finally realize that the porn industry’s interpretation of lesbian relationships is about as “real” as the breasts of its actresses”

THAT’S STUPID !

If i have to watch porn i watch it solo or lesbian sex. .I HATE PENIS ! they gross me out and likely that i’ll NEVER EVER Watch a porn with a Guy again !

]]> By: tajhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-154395 taj Mon, 27 Aug 2012 19:42:05 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-154395 Ok, i have a situation. I like guys. I think they’re hot . But frankly, penis’s gross me out :/ But im super into girls. But i doubt im lesbian. And i dont want to come out as bi because i dont think id have sex with a guy. But i dont want to come out as lesbian either?

]]> By: JasLake419http://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-125896 JasLake419 Mon, 09 Jul 2012 06:29:05 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-125896 Totally I agree I mean… why can’t the ugly guys be gay!!! ( no offense) All these guys are gay and I find myself attracted because theyre uber cute!! :(

]]> By: icantloveuhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-124269 icantloveu Fri, 06 Jul 2012 05:10:38 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-124269 why do we have to like what we cant have??
lately all the hot guys are gay! :(

]]> By: Maryhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-124094 Mary Thu, 05 Jul 2012 22:23:15 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-124094 “Often the “lesbian thing” is a phase younger guys go through when they first discover that girls can have sex with girls. They’ll likely lose interest when they get older and finally realize that the porn industry’s interpretation of lesbian relationships is about as “real” as the breasts of its actresses.”
My boyfriend is 44 and still goes on about lesbians… :/

]]> By: Reghttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-122991 Reg Tue, 03 Jul 2012 13:28:34 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-122991 Beth, Nothing weird with that. It’s totally normal. Lots of women find lesbians and gay men attractive. Sexual attraction is not precisely targeted at procreation. Humans can have sex at any time although ovulation allows us to procreate only a few days each month. Finding it weird to be attracted to lesbians and gay men is only as weird as having sex on days when you cannot have kids or using birth control when having sex.

]]> By: Sam Spadehttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-90014 Sam Spade Mon, 21 May 2012 09:19:59 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-90014 What you’ve said makes a lot of sense. If I can add a little, I’d also say that for some men, the very act of lesbian sex as opposed to a nude photo shoot with multiple girls is more enticing in that it adds to the sexual charge. It’s one thing to have one or more girls in the altogether, even if they’re touching each other here and there. It’s another entirely to have them doing to each other what we the audience would like to be doing to them, whether consciously or unconsciously.
I’ve heard some people say that men don’t really want lesbians, they want bisexual women, so that they can get in on it. Personally, I’ve always found strictly girl-on-girl erotica, both literary and visual, to be much more arousing. While my subconscious mind wants them to be attracted to me, it also wants them to not be attracted to any other man. If some other man is in the picture, then he’s getting in on something that I’m not. And I don’t like that, both consciously and unconsciously. If it’s just another girl on screen, that’s not nearly as much of a dilemma. The unconscious mind can tell itself that “Maybe she’d be into me. There’s not really any reason to belief she wouldn’t be.” It’s also a lot harder for a man to sexually envy a woman than another man.
So all in all, a lot of the unpleasant aspects inherent to the act of watching porn, such as watching other people getting some action while you’re at home alone, are absent when watching or reading lesbian erotica, leaving an abundance of the kind of stuff that guys go onto the internet for in the first place.

]]> By: Bethhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-87817 Beth Fri, 11 May 2012 18:32:03 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-87817 I’m a girl I find lesbians quite attractive it’s not weird is it? I find gay guys attractive too. It’s not all that weird.

]]> By: Macihttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-87173 Maci Tue, 08 May 2012 02:01:39 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-87173 Ethan, i just wanted to say that your answers are awesome. I look up to you, you have helped me through a lot. Love you stay cool!

]]> By: Ethan Fixellhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/05/01/guys-and-lesbians-male-fantasies/comment-page-1/#comment-85584 Ethan Fixell Thu, 03 May 2012 14:37:39 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=62808#comment-85584 Totally agree, Lisa. Intolerance of any kind is generally a sign of immaturity, whether the guys (or girls) are sexually into lesbians (or gay guys) or not!

-Ethan

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