Have you girls ever heard of a ‘free pass’? No, we’re not talking about a free pass to the gym, or anything like that. We’re talking about a free pass in your relationship, as in telling your boyfriend he can hook up with certain people and it won’t be considered cheating.
You’ve probably heard of this related to celebrities: like, if your BF meets his favorite female star, he can hook up with her without his girlfriend getting mad. We saw this topic in the boards and we want to know: would you ever agree to this? Would you be okay with your SO hooking up with someone else? Read what these girls had to say about it and let us know your opinion:
Idk if you gURLs have heard of this, but apparently there’s this thing called “free pass”. It basically means a guy and a girl who are not together can sleep with each other casually. They’re not necessarily FWB, but they wouldn’t mind having sex. Another form of the free pass would be if a GF gives her BF one, then he has permission to sleep with another girl, basically. Which I don’t really see me giving to my BF. Ever. Haha. What are your views on this?
I’m cool with it. Me and my husband have even made jokes about it, like if Johnny Depp wanted to hook up, or Megan Fox for him.
Honestly, I think that in a relationship giving someone a free pass is like saying, “I love you, but I am way more attracted to this other girl and I am hoping that if I give you a free pass, you will give me one too. But I still love you…”
Messed up if you ask me. I think that if you want a free pass or want to give one, then you probably aren’t ready for a relationship. I guess I am just thinking about how I would feel if my boyfriend gave me a free pass or asked for one. I wouldn’t be very happy about it.
What do I think? Well, personally, I would never agree to give my boyfriend a free pass (unless maybe it involved a celebrity – since that’s such a fantasy and most likely won’t happen). I just wouldn’t be able to handle the thought of him being with another girl – that’s cheating! There’s no way around it.
If you’re going to agree to this, make sure you’re agreeing to it because you want to do it and you’re comfortable with it. Never agree to something like this just to please your man. That is only going to result in heartache for you… and it will probably end up ruining your relationship.
Would you give your boyfriend a free pass? Have you ever? Tell us in the comments.