Comments on: Ask A Guy: Do Guys Judge Girls Based On Her Clothes?

By: Llilly

Llilly — Sun, 21 Oct 2012 01:40:15 +0000

Hmm

By: Ethan Fixell

Ethan Fixell — Wed, 13 Jun 2012 16:00:12 +0000

Sounds like you’ve found a good guy — stick with him!

-Ethan

By: Barbie.LuvzU

Barbie.LuvzU — Tue, 12 Jun 2012 02:34:17 +0000

Well idk…it depends he dosent want a girl dreesing bummy ..but what girl dosent judge how the guy looks…society has became where beuty outside is same inside..so idk i guess he would judge alittle..but mostly focus on apperance and personality…i guess thats how it is…

By: Countrygurl

Countrygurl — Mon, 11 Jun 2012 18:42:34 +0000

I’ve stuck with pretty much the same fashion stuff for a few years. I barely ever try to wear the clothes that are only gonna be in style for a while. If a guy doesn’t like what I wear then they can go find a girl who wears what they want. But my guy doesn’t judge the way I dress and I like that <3

By: carley

carley — Sun, 20 May 2012 23:02:10 +0000

you shouldn’t be worrying about bf/gf relationships when you’re only twelve. enjoy life while you are still a kid, and dont try too hard to lose weight, because chances are, as you get older, your body will just naturally get thinner.(im not gauranteeing it) but in early middle school, my friend was pretty chubby, but as she grew taller, she started getting thinner and thinner.(she wasnt even on a diet or anything) now we’re 15 and she’s about average weight. and as for the boy issues…. most teenage boys and girls arent mature enough to know what they want in a partner, so dont waste your time worrying about a boy that probably wont matter in a year or so. boys can be really shallow and will only care about your appearence sometimes. and even if you get skinny, that doesnt mean a boy will like you. Im 15, and i have always been skinny and i can only name a couple times a boy has shown intrest in me. when you get older, you will learn more about who you are and so will boys. and although there will still be boys that only like girls based on physicall appearance, there will also be boys that care much more about your personality, and who knows, maybe in a couple years youll find a nice guy that likes you for your personality, and thinks you’re cute (but dont try to take things to quickly!) but for now, be patient, and show him that you dont need him, because a 12 year old doesnt need a bf to be happy all u need is good friends and a good life.

By: Jess

Jess — Thu, 10 May 2012 05:15:41 +0000

I agree with Kelly. Forget about trying to impress him and focus on yourself. You’re 12. I know that losing this guy seems like the end of the world, I’ve been there but it’s best if you let go. Maybe he’ll miss the attention and seek you out but there’s no point in coming off as crazy or obsessive (which believe me, you seem to be doing). There will be other guys who like you for you.

At 12 losing weight shouldn’t be an issue for you unless it’s a health concern. If you really want to change, take up a sport for the summer. Soccer is a good start, there’s a lot of running but it’s not too difficult to learn. Softball is also a fun one. There’s less running and a bit more skill involved but I loved it when I was your age and it’s a full body work out. Also, give up all the unhealthy snacks. A bunch of little things will make all the difference! Good Luck Georgia! I hope we helped a little. – Jess

By: Kelly

Kelly — Wed, 09 May 2012 05:28:45 +0000

First of all, the best thing a girl can have is confidence. it does’t matter if you’re overweight as long as you take what you got and work it! Secondly, if your ex is saying that it’s annoying when you repeatedly call you should stop. I get not wanting to lose him but if you guys are broken up and it doesn’t seem as if you guy’ll get back together again soon then just try to keep it to a minimum of maybe calling every other day. Lastly I’m sure that guy you’re interested in now doesn’t “only like skinny girls” I believe that truly love conquers all including looks so let him get to know you and if it’s meant to be, it’ll be and if not then there are plenty of fish in the sea! good luck

By: suehey

suehey — Fri, 04 May 2012 22:00:38 +0000

my bf too he likes it, as he says they can look all they want but your mine

By: georgia

georgia — Fri, 04 May 2012 14:23:24 +0000

hey..look..i am twelve years old..and i like meny boys..but i am overweight and nobody likes me back..there is a guy that was my boyfriend and he didn’t care about my weight but know he doesn’t show that he want’s to talk to me..he is not my bf eny more..and call him like 10 times a day..but he says that a anoy him…what sould i do? i tryied to not call him but i dont want to loose him..and there is another guy my love of my life…but he only likes thin girls but i am fat…i tried to loose weight but i can’t…what sal i do?

By: Sammie

Sammie — Wed, 02 May 2012 22:04:51 +0000

My BF does seem to like it when I wear mildly revealing clothes, and I’m fine with that. I wore short skirts with bikini tops and strapless shirts anyways, so why not? It’s a win-win situation for me.