Comments on: How To Tell Him “I’m A Virgin”

By: katie

katie — Wed, 05 Jun 2013 23:56:58 +0000

you go girl!

By: Steve

Steve — Sat, 01 Jun 2013 16:58:57 +0000

In my experiences, the guys who won’t sleep with virgins are the ones who care the most…

By: InnocentGia

InnocentGia — Tue, 28 May 2013 23:03:58 +0000

Well this guy and I had been hanging out for a while. We were getting somewhere and all but he wasn’t officially my boyfriend yet. So we were making out in his room one day and we got really turned on. He wanted to go ahead and do it but i said no and he stopped. Then i just went ahead and asked him how many times he’d done it nd he said 4. Then he asked ‘what about you?’. I jus shook my head and said ‘I’m a virgin’. Of course he teased me. ‘What? Such people still exist??’ But we laughed it off and it was cool.

By: alisha

alisha — Fri, 24 May 2013 21:31:44 +0000

im 19 and im a virgin, im scared to tell a guy im a virgin because i dont know how he’s going to take it. ummm Girls around this town don’t exactly believe in virgins lol. its kind of sad because all my friends and younger cousins are out having sex with any and everybody. and im just there all awkward and stuff when ever they talk about there sexual experiences. The people around me make feel like its a bad thing to be a virgin. this is a small town so there are not very many virgins. and I always feel lame becuz my younger cousins are always telling me stories about there sex life. and im older than them so it always feels akward. I wanna have sex but i dont wanna do it becuz i feel pressured to do what everybody is doin or i feel like im the outcast. but now ive been talking this guy for quite some time and I really like him the thing is, he thinks im not a virgin and idk how to tell him I am. becuz I dnt want to feel rejected again. im scared becuz the 1st guy I ever told tht i was a virgin he freaked out and didnt want to be my first becuz he felt like i was gonna be attached to him. so he stop talking me and pretty much avoided me. my guess is he was just in it for the sex and didn’t want a relationship. but im not that kind of girl I wanna feel special and in love when I have my first time. idk I just need somebodys opinion abt how I should tell this guy. bcuz right now I feel alone like I cant relate to anyone, and none of my friends understand bucuz nobody around me is a virgin. so I need help….. any opinions would be nice

By: Anili285

Anili285 — Fri, 17 May 2013 04:00:19 +0000

I met this guy over the internet, we chatted for months but then we met for the first time at Valentine’s when he asked me out on a dinner. We started to hang out mor oftern and to be honest I was feeling it for him really bad. One night we were making out on his car and things got steamy!! I just didn’t keep my mouth shut and shout at him while we were kissing…”I’ve never been with a man before”… (at this point I already knew he had a past relationship and of course he was sexually experienced) I just told him about my Virginity because things were getting little deep. His reaction was… “I’m fucked” which until now I am not sure what he really meant. He was overwhelmed and asked me if we want us to be friends . . . I was like “What”??? Then I felt embarrased for telling him about my most well-kept secret. I took the risk not knowing what to expect from this guy. I thought it was the end. We are taking it slowly right now and he says we don’t need to rush anything. For that reason he told me I am the best thing ever happened to him… For a guy (depends which ones) virginity could be scary and at some point a responsability but for others is just like a blessing for putting V-girls into their lives.

By: Steentje

Steentje — Sat, 13 Apr 2013 23:34:20 +0000

When I told my boyfriend about my virginity, his first reaction was “Oh… Maybe it’s better if we talking about other things” so I got upset and was being cold towards him. Later on we had a better talk and he told me that he thought that I was feeling uncomfortable about it, so that was why he said that maybe it was better to change topic. My boyfriend is kind of ‘perverted’, and he’s always teasing me with it, but he told me that he will wait for me no matter what and that we won’t just have sex but that he’ll “make love” to me. Those were the sweetest words I’ve heard, my boyfriend is really cute! ^^

By: livie

livie — Tue, 19 Mar 2013 05:14:59 +0000

I am 15, almost 16. I sort of have a friends with benefits going on like we give each other oral etc but we havent had inrercourse. In some ways I feel i am ready but in someways I am not. I am not on birth control so I am worried, i know he could wear a condom but there would still be a chance. I really want to loose my virginity but I don’t want to get pregnant & there is nooo way I would ask my parents to get me birth control as they think I am “innocent”

By: lovestruckrose

lovestruckrose — Sun, 10 Mar 2013 08:22:28 +0000

I tottaly agree but I am in a sticky mess to my bf 17 and me 16 he has had 3 girls in his pants me none I don’t know what to do but I must be able to him anything he is amazing and I love him and want to wait BUT I am the odd one out bewteen my friends I shoundt even be posting a comment can anyone help me

By: Amy

Amy — Thu, 07 Mar 2013 17:42:37 +0000

I am twenty three and I am waiting till I am married.

By: Jane

Jane — Sun, 24 Feb 2013 04:22:52 +0000

I actually asked him first haha i HATE awkward situations with him so i got to him before he got to me. i made him tell me about his first time and then he was like “so what dude got in your panties?” haha i said “how do you anyone did?” and he said “did they?” i was like “idk did they?” he was like “no.” and i was like “okay then.” haha i think it was cute.