Comments on: How To Tell Him “I’m A Virgin”

By: missprettybaby96

missprettybaby96 — Thu, 10 Jan 2013 17:54:38 +0000

I’m 16 (gonna be 17 in a few months!) and I’m a virgin. I’m kind of complicated, I think. I want to lose my virginity right now, but I also want it to be special and with a guy whom I love and respect and he feels the same way about me. There is no way in hell that I would be able to do anything with any guy, unless it’s at church (which I would never have sex in a church). My parents basically have me on lock-down since I was a freshman in high school (since November 2010), because of the trouble I got into at school. I cannot wait until I graduate high school (May 2014!!), because I’ll be 18 and graduated and my parents will have NO control over me.

I’ve told plenty of guys that I’m not a virgin. Most of the guys that I’ve told are friends and they asked. There’s only been a few that I’ve told freely at my own choice to tell. I feel fine when I tell a guy that I’m a virgin. The guys who I have told never made fun of me or never stopped talking to me or anything negative. In fact, a few have even told me they think it’s sweet and cute of me that I’m still a virgin and that they don’t see a lot of girls who are virgins anymore and that they wish there was.

By: truefaith

truefaith — Tue, 08 Jan 2013 05:34:13 +0000

i’m 21, told my boyfriend that i would only lose my virginity after we got married, so if he’s not okay with it he could leave me now and ran away… but he said he’s not with me because of sex but because he’s in love with me, he would wait and marry me to prove to me that he’s unlike any guy and that he’s worth it

By: Megan

Megan — Thu, 03 Jan 2013 11:50:52 +0000

I’m 12 and even though I’m not really a virgin I classify myself as one 2 months ago on my birthday I was raped by my 16 year old cousin we never visit him any more but when I see him at the shops and stuff he always smiles at me and says how u doin v then he goes oh wait I’m sorry I changed that for you didn’t I. I seriously hate him and sometimes cry myself to sleep at night! Sorry that was a bit pointless I just needed to get that off my chest. Anyway is it weird I still think of myself as a virgin

By: A girl...

A girl... — Thu, 27 Dec 2012 12:03:38 +0000

Hey you reckon that’s awkward, when I was 12 my boyfriend asked me if I was a virgin. At the time I didn’t know what the heck it was so I just said I dunno hahah. Then I found out and I was like. “Yeah yes yes!!! I’m a virgin, defiantly!!!” Haha

Embarrassing!

By: Layla546

Layla546 — Fri, 21 Dec 2012 23:52:59 +0000

You my friend, have found the perfect guy.

By: Belinda

Belinda — Fri, 21 Dec 2012 13:55:18 +0000

I accidently told him oops it sought-a just came out word vomit

By: sxyangelbabe

sxyangelbabe — Mon, 17 Dec 2012 03:41:02 +0000

I feel so sorry for you. I cannot believe you need your moms permission to lose your virginity.
Well how old is the guy? Does he have his own place? do you do sleep overs at friends place? If you do can they cover for you while you have that rmantic time with your bf?
By the way, your sexuality is your property. It does not belong to your parents. Does not belong to your society. The law does not own it either. So if you choose to have sex it MUST be ONLY you who makes that decision and NO ONE else. Dont let anyone else feed you with guilt and other moral rubbish. Sex is a normal aspect of life. There is no right or wrong time. It happens when you want it to happen. You dont go to heaven if you are a virgin. When you die you turn to dust. LOL. So live your life fully, have fun and enjoy the benefits of the functions god gave your body. Marriage, morals, ethics are all MAN MADE concepts. Gosh there are even Laws to govern our sexuality. Dont you think we humans are stupid and think that we can control how we function? Just be sensible and take precautions and be discreet if you dont want anyone to know. If you want to do it you will find a way. Good Luck. My bf has his own place.

By: Yanga

Yanga — Sat, 01 Dec 2012 08:09:20 +0000

Hey I’m 21and I really like this guy; we’ve messed around a few times but we haven’t gone all the way. I have never really gone all the way and I know he thinks I have. I told him he’d have to wait before we had sex and although at first reluctant he agreed. I’m not sure if I should tell him I’m a virgin because I feel I’ve already led him on, and I don’t want to scare him by mentioning to him that I’m a virgin. At the same time I feel like ending it here as I always do with my relationships. Is that okay?

By: nchangirl

nchangirl — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 21:31:21 +0000

I don’t recommend doing it. You shouldn’t lose your virginity especially if you want to be like your friends. If you feel pressured, tell them. They’ll understand. And if they still urge you to have sex, then they aren’t the right friends. Your mother isn’t mean; she is just worried about your safety; especially if your sister did what you want to do. You don’t have to lose your virginity when you’re married, that may just be your mom’s belief or what she wants for you, but you should make sure that it’s special, and safe. Sex seems fun but you also have to be sure of many things: health, if it’s the right person, and so forth. Make sure to do a LOT of advanced research on sex. Use not only birth control but male protection too; if he doesn’t use anything it’s way more dangerous. You should also make sure that both of you are clean, you can get tested. But if you’re too young than you shouldn’t be having sex in the first place. It’s a very mature experience. I’m a virgin myself but I have an older sister who got pregnant. She didn’t really know about all of the precautions. She’s a great mother to her children, but she does say she wish that she could’ve waited. A lot of things can happen from sex–disease, pregnancy, heartbreak–so if you decide to do it, any form of it, make sure you feel 100 percent ready, you’ve already discussed it with your significant other–never do it with someone you don’t love and trust–and make sure you are committed enough with them, you know your facts, the dangers and if you don’t feel right yet, don’t do it, even if everyone around you is. Virginity is a very important thing and sex is serious. If you want to do it, make sure you’re alright; if you want to wait, go ahead. Just make sure that you’re alright, safe and comfortable with whatever decisions you make.

By: raveen123

raveen123 — Wed, 28 Nov 2012 18:03:59 +0000

hay as we on the subject i wanna lose my virginity but mu mum is so mean that she says u can only lose it when you get married ! (ikr help) but i dont want to be the odd one out in my group of friends so i wanna do it behind my mums back thats what my sister did but my mum found out with out her tell my mum ! my mum says there type of signs i am now scared cuse if i do do it behind my mum back will she find out ?

plz help :S xxxx