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We picked a weekend when his parents were out of town, so we could have total privacy. He bought a ton of scented candles and made a mix of love songs. I bought sexy lingerie and made my favorite pasta salad for a romantic dinner. The week before the big night, we had a seven day count down, leaving flirty notes on each other’s cars and winking at each other whenever anyone asked what we were up to that weekend. Sure, I was nervous for sex, but with all of our prep and planning, I knew it was going to be perfect.
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The day of our special night, I went over to my boyfriend’s house in the morning to help him set up. I dropped off my sexy little outfit, put the pasta in the fridge, laid the condoms out on his nightstand in a perfect fan, and set up candles all over his bedroom. Once we had everything in place, there was still some time to kill before I had to be at the mall for work. So, we started messing around. And, well, things got really heated and we already had the condoms right by the bed and we’d both been thinking about nothing but sex for a whole week, so, sex just happened!
And after all of that prep, I lost my virginity with no candlelight, no music, no lingerie, and no special dinner. Nothing was special about it at all!
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When we were hanging out in bed afterwards, I decided I needed to do something special to mark my first steps down Sex Street. So, I turned to my boyfriend and started singing my own version of “If You’re Happy And You Know It.” Instead of the normal lyrics, I sang, “If you’re a VIRGIN and you know it, clap your hands.” Neither of us clapped and I made a huge deal of how this was the first time neither of us clapped to that song. As if anyone on the face of the planet had ever heard the virgin version of that song before! Whatever. I needed it to be special and that silly song made my first time special enough.
That night, we went through with our perfectly planned special night. Candle light, music, sexy outfit, and pasta dinner. And, I have to say, my second time having sex was totally perfect.
Was your first time everything you dreamed it would be? Let us know in the comments!
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well i lost my virginity when i was 14 the sunday right before thanksgiving with a very close family friend he had took me and my cousin to go see a movie after we came back around 11 me and him went to tha guest room and just chilled it was probaly 12 when me and him started gettin a lil flirtatious an things started getting hot at first it hurt but it started feeling better and better till i didnt want him to stop and he taught me an showed me things i never new maybe it wasant special but idc it was special to me i lost my virginity to this guy i knew for a long time and not some douche bag or horny ex thank god
My first time was not special at all…We had sex in an abandon house.I didnt have this whole big romantic evening planned out either.Of course, I was nervous but I went thought with it anyway.It wasnt what I thought it was going to be,thats for sure.All in all, it was indeed the worst mistake I have ever made! I tell people who are virgins to wait because once again it is a huge mistake.It is definatly not worth it.
My first time was with a guy 4 years older I was 14 he was 18 he also was my brothers friend and he asked me if I had sex before when my bro went to “open a gift with his girl friend” do he said do u want to see how a guy cums so I sayed sure ( I was very stupid) I already knew but I just wanted to see his dick so when he wiped it out he said touch it so I get hard I have given a hand job do I knew how to do that when I started u know he said do I want to stick it up your vagina I was very horny do I said yes and he took of my clothes and he started tonguid his dick into my thang and after he stated it was really pain full and I told him to stop but he kept going and going then he took it out and sprayed me with cum then told me to put on my clothes after he put his on I could not find my brawl so when my brother came back and saw me top less and the rest I don’t want to talk about . Also don’t waste your vaginty on someone that means nothing to u I wish that day never happened
Hey listen I’m sorry that happen to…I’m still a virgin, n I’m only 17 goin on 18 n I get pressure everyday about this …bt I plan to wait as long as I won’t and give it up to sumone who actually cares
My first time was with my best friend turned boyfriend Richard. He invited me on a date. We both had dinner and we were just walking off the streets and suddenly it started raining.so we ran to his car and he got me home that night i was alone at home so i invited him inside my house. We were drinking coffe and suddenly he started kissing me he took me in my bedroom we were on bed kissing eachother then started undressing me slowly and then he entered me it was slow but it pained a bit. It was very emotional for both of us coz we both were virgins.:D.
Hello everyone! I’m Brooklyn and Ill be 17 in 23 days. My first time actually happened last night and I’m not gonna say it was perfect because it wasn’t. I do not regret a thing though. It was very unplanned. I’ve known my boyfriend for 3 years but we just now got together. I’ve loved everything about him since the day I met him. His smile, his freckles, his abs, and even his thick soccer player legs! I went with his family to eat Thanksgiving and then went back to his house after. His parents really like and trust us to be safe so they always go to bed while I’m still there. We were making out on his bed when he asked me to go down on him. I did and he returned the favor. We were both pantoess and I was so high in the clouds from him going down on me that I barely realized I felt a pressure down there. I stopped him in time to put a condom on and then right there at the end of his bed I lost my virginity. It hurt worse then I imagined it would but I was happy it was with him. It was perfectly imperfect. He held me until I had to leave for my curfew. I teared a little bit and he just wiped my tears and told me he loved me. I have been waiting to hear that for the last 3 years.
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When me and my boyfriend got together,I took the nerve to have sex with him.I wasn’t sure about how to do it.My boyfriend kept on saying if you do it you will learn it.I agreed to him and thought it was easy as cake.We did sex and started kissing but in a few minutes he started undressing me and I got kinda mad cause it looked wrong to me,so I literally told him to stop it and we broke up cause of that.The next year he came back to say sorry and we had a little PRIVATE chat which you shouldn’t know
We did sex next week and he slighly pushed me to the bed and started kissing me and eventually he started undressing me and it didn’t matter to me than.He took of all my clothes(Including Undergarments) and I took of all his clothes (Including Undergarments) I sucked his cock and it was yummy!Than he peed on me and I drank his pee,We slept naked and at night he wake up in the middle of the night to kiss my butt….it was awkward and than he used to kiss my private spot.
We have officially broken up now,so no need.
my first time was special, really awkward and uncoordinated because both of us were virgins. I didn’t think it was going to be as emotional as it was, or as painful. I think it is something you should wait to have, as least get to know your partner, my boyfriend and I didn’t wait, so we had weird start. the first time we had sex it was hilarious, we both thought the other was experienced, it wasn’t till much later that he told me he had been a virgin, haha, oh jeez, everyone says they fantasized what their first time would be like, I didn’t, I didn’t really care about sex, I just wanted a companion, now I have one, even though I’m nigger young, just wait to have sex, and its way different than you would ever expect.
My first time was at my house(15 year old girl), my boyfriend came to visit me when there was no-one,we were sitting in the living roon, we talked for a while and we kissed and he asked me if we could go to my bedroom, well i said yes becoz i was curious and knew what was goin to happen there. We kissed and kissed, eventualy he slowly undressed me, i got soo scared but ddnt say anything coz i realy wanted to do it and so we did and OMG! It was painful
Always do the sex with special one with safety measure. when there is pain there is gain
I tink u do really lyk it even though it waz painful
I am 20 years old still a virgin mostly because no girl will date me long enough for this to even come up and I’m not going to just have dex to have it.
Life is beautiful dont think about always sex. enjoy the beauty of feeling and virginity. keep passions and go ahead with confidence without inferiority .
i agree with raj…one must enjoy their virgin status to the fullest n gift it to someone worth for it…
Like really…. I have a boyfriend and when we have sex ……..my boyfriend sets a romantic. Dinner and a romantic place like the house duh!!!!!!
this is a porn site!!!!!!!!
so sweety this z not…
Hey The First time i did it was when i was 16 he had just turn 17 and I had been asking him too for a really long time oh yeah i was his gf for a year and his fam was going on a trip to mexico and i was invited of course i went at the hotel we had to get paired up his mom didnt realy want me to but his dad said every night morning he was going to check on us (how stupid ) we culdve dun it in the night anyway one night they went out and we stayed there by ourselves so we could you know so he ordered room service i was watching a movie so he came and sat on the floor with me behind me and started kissing my neck and putting his tounge in my ear i turned around and started kissing him and then he unbuttoned my pants and took them off i took his shirt off then he said let me do the work so i let him he lifted me on to the bed and climbed on top of me his penis was hard and long he started to go in then i screamed ow and pushed his chest saying stop he reminded me that it was me who said yes so i let it go in completely for the first 2 minutes it was like he was stabbing me then it cool down and it actually felt good then thats when it reached a high point i started scraping his back and screaming out fuck yeh harder harder deeperr deepperr my toes were curled and i was finished before he was when he was ready he started going slow very slow and before he let it out he came out of there and let it out on my stomach.
We are three years steady now and he gives me when i want and i tend to his needs too its a win win situation
Ok, so my boyfriend and I attempted to have sex on his parents boat. Just as he started to get it in (Which hurt terribly!) we were interrupted by his sister. (SUPER AWKWARD) So later on we both agreed we would try again when the time was right. The time has now come and next week on my birthday I am going to his house while his parents are out of town. I am so nervous! The first time happened so quickly I didn’t even have time to be nervous!
My boyfriend is close to three years older than me, so he is… More developed than me. So that is another factor of why it hurt so badly. Is there anything I can do to lesson the pain? Also, does anyone have any tips to help with my actual first time? /:
Thanks guys!
~Eliza
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Hi! My name is eliza too which is why i got so excited and decided to answer you
And our bodies are made to be able to accommodate any guy’s size, it depends if you’re feeling stretched out or if he’s too long, and when he’s all the way in its uncomfortable. If its the first, which is probably cuz I’ve had that problem too, do a couple things. Either do a lott before the sex so you’re completely wet, or use lube, which is the most amazing thing. Make sure you’re not nervous, and sometimes starting out with you on top can be easier. If he’s just too long, talk to him about it, and ask him to be careful not to go in all the way, because whats happening is he’s hitting your cervix, which isn’t dangerous but it doesn’t feel great.
I lost my virginity one month after i turned 19. I was with my boyfriend for 2 months, and before that we were good friends for few months.
I knew that it will hurt, so i didn’t expect it to be perfect at all. The less you expect the less you will be disappointed.
He said that he will light up some candles and open a bottle of vine, but i said that he doesn’t have to do that, i don’t know why.. I just felt it was kind of stupid, i am not really romantic.
We talked about that maybe 2 weeks before we did it. I wanted to do that but i was also scared which was normal because it was my first time. And even the night we agreed we will do it, i wasn’t sure if i want to do it, i was so nervous.
I physically prepared myself for that, but psychically not really. When i got to his house we started talking as usual, about some random things, and then we started kissing. He started undressing me slowly. I said i’m not sure about this, and he said, you will feel like this every time, don’t worry, i will be careful.
He was careful, and was doing it slowly, he stopped when i told him so, but even besides that it really hurt, even more then i expected.
After that i didn’t even had a feeling a lost my virginity. It wasn’t anything special or perfect and i wasn’t really disappointed because i didn’t expect it to be so.
Now we are together for 6 months, and the sex is much better now.
My boyfriend broke my virgin it was painfull.he was pampering me because he can see I was in pain.he did use baby oil.afterward it was nice I did forget I was in pain.I did walk normal because u get people that don’t walk normal.use condoms.baby oil helps
… My first time is going to happen soon… This Saturday. It’s going to be our 1 year anniversary. I’m kinda nervous, because I want to do it and all, but I’m 15 for crying out loud. I know what some might be thinking: “She’s way too young, she’s gonna regret this!” or “She’s beingstupid about it. She must wait.” Yes, I know, and I partially agree with those things, but it’s kinda difficult.
The thing is, we’re both really curious people, and we often speak about how we wonder how some things feel. He’s my first proper boyfriend, and I’m his first proper girlfriend. I’m in love with him. He has perfect morals and has ambition. In my eyes, he’s close to perfect. My mother doesn’t really like him, because he has a dark sense of humour, but that’s my kind of humour. Anyway, we’ve been planning this for about a week now, I kinda like how spontanious it is, but when I have time alone to think about it all, I’m becoming more and more nervous. I want this moment to happen with him. I just need some help relaxing. Please help me?
Please remember this: I’m going to do it anyway, and I just want some help. I don’t really want people telling me how stupid I’m being. I want friends, not foes. Thank you for your help…
If your nervous don’t do it! If your heart tell you to your ready! Then your ready! You got to tell how you feel!
omg i fee like im reading a story bout me, thts just how it is with me only he proposed to me already. im also 15 nd i know people think its crazy nd im stupid but i know hes the one!
ok girls.
YOU’RE 15.
your whole life are ahead of you!
you have sooo much more to experience.
you’re not stupid, but you have to see yourself from an objective spot.
Keira – you have 1 year anniversary, that’s great. but it doesn’t mean that you need to do it with him just cause of it’s you’re 1 year. it’s been almost 3 months since your post so i suppose you’re already after that, but anyhow – if you feel like doing this – great. but if you have suspects and still kinda nervous – then wait. no one is 100% ready for the first time, but you know when you’re close to it – that’s for the other girls who haven’t done it yet and wonder.
riley.turtle – marriage – not now.
You are 15!!!!!
again, you have no idea what will be with you in a couple of years from now.
you’re going to change so much that you have no idea.
take a look on the song of Taylor Swift “Fifteen”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pb-K2tXWK4w
it’s just about that.
life seem so short from this age, but you’re so young.
you’re in love and it’s so legitimate that you’ll feel this way about this guy and think that you guys should merry – look, nothing is impossible, you might will(!)
BUT don’t decide from now, you’re gonna meet so many people and maybe better ones, maybe worse one.
You have a lot of time till you’ll need to decide.
Now just enjoy you’re time with him. Marriage is a BIG DEAL,and it’s not for a 15 years old teens!!!
Guys will be there ALWAYS.
Put focus on things that you like to do as well.
This age is passing faster than you imagine, and there are things that would be more difficult to do when you’re older – then exploit the time and enjoy every second of it.
OMG im really nervous about my first time. Basically there is this lad we ar enot dating or anything but we have been the closest of friends for three years now. he knows my deepest and darkest secrets but still really likes me. Im 14 and yes i know im young and he is 16. We are both virgins. I really like him now. He makes me feel safe and secure. We have both talked about wanting to know what having sex is like and basically discussed if anything happened what it would be like. So next time we are alone i think something might happen what should i do. xXx
Look, the first time I did it, we both agreed we wanted it, and did it the next day. It shouldnt be a big, planned event. When you are comfortable with someone, it just.. happens. I was becoming more and more nervous just before I did it, but when it happens, when you do come to it, you dont feel nervous, it is just in the moment. Just think, you will be doing this with someone you’ve been with for a decent amount of time. You both care about eachother enough that it isnt meaningless. Just focus on that, and it will be alright. Have fun! and please be safe!
Am also 15 and i knw hw u feel abt sex am nt sayin u r stupid but u shuld tink again, he may not marry u, u may get hurt, u may nt regret it but stil u shuld study d guy and knw if he only want u cuz of sex note dat am nt askin u 2 wait but he may nt be d guy and u shuld learn hw 2 say no and control ur sexsual desires, we r teenagers and we hav 2 act lyk 1 but dnt get fooled and be tempted wit sex, sure i do get honey i always want sex but u must learn 2 prevent it girl
sigh i thought/thinking sex is so gross darn it now im reading how it was oh so perfect ug im sooooooooooo sick with myself right now
My first time honestly wasn’t that great. We had been talking only for about half a month, and I think things were really rushed. We were hanging out with some friends in a church parking lot (Ironic, right.) and all of a sudden he told me “Lets go somewhere.” I said okay, so we said bye to his friends and got in his car. It was kinda out in the country side, so we went and parked behind a half built house and climbed in the back seat of his tiny car. It happened, and the whole time I was thinking damn, this is it? It may not have been as great just because I was nervous, or just because he was a little small down there, but I think it’s worth it to wait until you are in a comfortable place with a person you feel you’re ready to be with. I don’t regret doing it, but it could have been way better.
It was horrible. My boyfriend was 3 years older, we were at my house and no one was here. I shared a room with my stepsister, and it all happened on her bed. It felt like it lasted forever, I remember he asked me if I had “finished” and I said, “Well, I don’t know”. Totally embarrassing! My mom found out, horrible..
my first time was romantic enough..♥
it was at a school trip were we were partners at the hotelroom!
we were making up, and he suddenly started getting naked and you know the rest..
it hurted alot cuz he’s got a loooooooooooooooooong one.. he got like a beast OMG..
ok wait.. what the hell.
i know right tmi
All I ever dreamed of for my first time was it to be in my boyfriend’s bed and it was going to be romantic and oh so memorable. How much is that to ask right?
Well we got antsy and knew there wasn’t going to be a time alone in his house so guess what the next best thing was……in the woods at a home football game. I’m sure ya would’ve never guessed that, because I didn’t.
We were hanging out with a group of friends and for some reason we were both really in the mood so we went for a walk. That walk lead to the damp and chilly woods. I ended up laying on his sweatshirt and half clothed.
Definitely memorable because the jeans I was wearing are permanently mud stained. Needless to say, it wasn’t until the 4th time that we managed to be on a couch.
My current boyfriend and I haven’t had it anywhere but a bed and were totally naked each time. He gave me my fairy tale night.