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We picked a weekend when his parents were out of town, so we could have total privacy. He bought a ton of scented candles and made a mix of love songs. I bought sexy lingerie and made my favorite pasta salad for a romantic dinner. The week before the big night, we had a seven day count down, leaving flirty notes on each other’s cars and winking at each other whenever anyone asked what we were up to that weekend. Sure, I was nervous for sex, but with all of our prep and planning, I knew it was going to be perfect.
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The day of our special night, I went over to my boyfriend’s house in the morning to help him set up. I dropped off my sexy little outfit, put the pasta in the fridge, laid the condoms out on his nightstand in a perfect fan, and set up candles all over his bedroom. Once we had everything in place, there was still some time to kill before I had to be at the mall for work. So, we started messing around. And, well, things got really heated and we already had the condoms right by the bed and we’d both been thinking about nothing but sex for a whole week, so, sex just happened!
And after all of that prep, I lost my virginity with no candlelight, no music, no lingerie, and no special dinner. Nothing was special about it at all!
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When we were hanging out in bed afterwards, I decided I needed to do something special to mark my first steps down Sex Street. So, I turned to my boyfriend and started singing my own version of “If You’re Happy And You Know It.” Instead of the normal lyrics, I sang, “If you’re a VIRGIN and you know it, clap your hands.” Neither of us clapped and I made a huge deal of how this was the first time neither of us clapped to that song. As if anyone on the face of the planet had ever heard the virgin version of that song before! Whatever. I needed it to be special and that silly song made my first time special enough.
That night, we went through with our perfectly planned special night. Candle light, music, sexy outfit, and pasta dinner. And, I have to say, my second time having sex was totally perfect.
Was your first time everything you dreamed it would be? Let us know in the comments!
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I known each other ever since we were kids and we finally went out together for 2 years. It was just a regular day hanging out alone in his apartment. We were wrestling around with each other when he was on top of me. We were staring into each others eyes until he started kissing me. We started making out, taking each others clothes off, and finally we were having sex.
I wouldn’t say it was perfect or anything, but finding the right person to do it with is worth it.
I lost my virginity just about two weeks ago. I’m 18, and I lost it with my long-time boyfriend, of about 2 years. Nothing was special about it, actually.
We were watching a movie at our friend’s house with our group of friends. We didn’t even plan on doing it. After watching the movie we were left alone at the movie area, just us two, a sofa, and a television. We started kissing, which turned into touching, and that went on for quite a while. We’ve been doing things up to second base ever since we dated, but never sex. He knew I was a virgin, and he didn’t ask me if I wanted to lose it already and I thought that he respects me too much to ask. I didn’t want to, anyway. This time, while making out, we were getting carried away already, and he was trying to remove my shorts and my underwear. “Am I ready? Is this it? The right time?” I thought. I helped him remove it anyway. There it was, he inserted it for who knows how many times (he couldn’t get it in because I was too tight) and when it got in, he started to thrust. Then, I heard my hymen pop. I bled (but I think this is totally normal) and yes, it hurt quite a bit. For the first few minutes it did but after quite a while, I got used to the pain. I didn’t come though. My second time was in my car just a week ago. I still bled but this time, my second time, was totally better than my first
Cheers to the people who’ve waited for the right time!
im only 13 when i lost my virginity on my boyfriend.yeah i am so too young in having sex but when he ask me to sex with him isaid no and he respect it.many date is past and after our 5th date we went to his house even his parentd there we doesnt mind them we strickly went to hisown room i sit on a chair and try to watch tv he suddenly also sit on a chair and askme if i want to have sex with him isaid yes we started he put his condoms on and we started kissing he put his penis on my vagina i felt amazingyes!
Plez………..i request all guys that not lose your virginity before 15 years of age
I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend, I’m 17 (born in january ’96) and he’s 16 (born in may ’96), and it was not awkward at all and quite comfortable.. amazing, even. It only hurt for the first couple of minutes hurt, but because we used a lot of lube (which we found helps A LOT), the other 20-something minutes were purely great! We talked to each other all the way through to keep it from getting awkward, and periodically checked the condom to make sure everything was going well… All in all, my first time was amazing and both him and I can’t stop talking about it – no word of a lie, that’s the honest truth.
I lost my virginity at age 17 during my first semester of college. It was with my highschool sweetheart and to be honest it was really hard for me, mostly because of how painful it was. He couldnt get it in the first try so we gave up and just relaxed with eachother naked in bed. The second time it still hurt but he managed to get about 3” in and broke my hymen. I couldnt take anymore so we decided to rest and we ended up staying up all night talking. The next morining it finally happened. I lost my virginity and it still hurt but i got used to the pain. Weird thing is, we didnt even technically have sex, just succeeded in “getting it in” but it was something to celebrate and my boyfriend was so supportive and patient the whole time. Now we do have sex and though it still huts a little at first the pain usually goes away in a few minutes.
My first time was not special. At all. I was seventeen, and had just graduated high school. My bf at the time (who I later became engaged to then broke up with a few months later) and I had been dating for only a couple months, but I thought I was ready. Unfortunately, since I was a virgin it took a while to get started, and he became annoyed by it. It was not pleasurable at all, and I wish I would have waited. Because after it happened the first time, it sort of became a chore. I never had an orgasm with him. We dated for 8 months (six of them were after we had sex), and then broke up. It wasn’t until I started dating my current bf (who I’ve been with for almost two years) and we had sex that I had my first orgasm. And in those two years, I have had more romantic evenings then I could have ever dreamed of.
i think nvr trust any guy without knowng his background
I was 18 when I lost my virginity. My boyfriend and I had been together for 2 1/2 years when we finally had sex (we had done virtually everything except have sex by this point). He was a freshman in college about 9 hours away and I was a senior in high school. I had an interview at a college about 2 hours away from where he went to school, so the day after my interview I drove to visit him.
I got to his school a few hours earlier than I told him I would, so I surprised him by showing up to watch his basketball game. After the game, he and I got dinner with a few of his friends and we all hung out for a while. But as it got later, we headed off to bed. His roommate was out of town for the weekend, so we had the room to ourselves.
And it was perfect.
Long story short, he played music and danced with me for a while. Then he started kissing my sweetly and slowly as we undressed each other. Finally, after a while of kissing and foreplay, we did it. We made love. I know some people don’t like that term, but I can’t explain it as anything else because that’s exactly what we did. It was incredible. Although it hurt so bad in the beginning, he lasted for a really long time, and we took it really slow, so by the end it started to feel pretty good (although I didn’t come).
My advice to anyone reading is that it’s always better to wait than to rush into it. If you don’t want to, then don’t do it. Your first time should only happen when you’re completely ready. If you decide that you’re not ready and don’t want to, a boy should respect that. You can always say yes at another time, but once you have sex, you don’t get another very first time. That being said, just because your first time wasn’t perfect or didn’t go just as you planned doesn’t mean that your second or third time won’t be amazing.
Sex is an emotional and beautiful act. And you, reading this at this very second, deserve that! We have been together for almost four years now, and I couldn’t be happier with anyone. And the sex gets better each time!
Okay… So last friday I made a huge mistake… My boyfriend and I had been dating for7 months. We we’re just chillin’ on my couch watching the lion king… We started making out and before I knew it, I was naked. The condoms were in my room so he went and I followed.. We had sex for 2 hours… I thought he loved me… 20 minutes after he left he dumped me. The day after I lost my virginity and got dumped I slept with his best friend… And the day after that, his brother…. I feel terrible. ):
u shud not waste urself only coz he dumbed u….