Comments on: From The Message Boards: Would You Be Okay With Only Having One Sexual Partner Ever?

By: Vanessa

Vanessa — Mon, 03 Jun 2013 00:35:06 +0000

Actually I think having too many sexual partners is detrimental to any future relationship. I met a guy who wanted a relationship but couldn’t because he had too many women to compare me to. Also, he was incapable of being intimate even when he was ready. I say keep your lifetime number low (I won’t out a number but should be below ten). There’s nothing wrong with having one partner or just a few. It’s better in the long run trust me.

By: Paige

Paige — Sun, 05 May 2013 02:40:01 +0000

I have always wanted to have sex with only one person, and marry someone who has only had sex with me. When I got with my current boyfriend, i knew that he wasn’t a virgin, but i didn’t think it would be a big deal. It was so wrong. It was a big deal. When i decided to have sex with him, it was so hard for me to not compare myself to his exes, and i was nervous that I wouldn’t compare and couldn’t compare to the others. Even though I knew it was stupid, i still felt that way, and sometimes still do. Although we got through it, It would’ve been so much easier if we were both virgins. I honestly believe that only having one partner can make your romantic life so much easier.

By: Bill

Bill — Thu, 21 Mar 2013 17:43:18 +0000

Ok my situation is a bit diff and roles are reversed a bit…wife had a handful before me and i only had one…we met when i was 21 she was 20 and we have been together ever since….we have awesome marriage and her past doesn’t bother me in the least…i am glad she lived a little and had some fun in college. Me on the other hand is now wishing i had a few more, really just for the experience and curioustity of it….my wife is attractive and we have great sex but someone different and new is still quite tempting….

By: PrincessBella

PrincessBella — Sat, 16 Mar 2013 16:51:26 +0000

OF COURSE!!! If they are the one even worth your first time then give it to them!!

By: people_r_nomads

people_r_nomads — Tue, 05 Mar 2013 06:25:19 +0000

I really like the way you said it.
I’m a guy who had a near miss(encounter) with a female colleague today. As I got outta this women’s apartment, my wife called. Had I been doing it, my phone would’ve rang “during the act”.
I’m laying on my bed now thinking how much I would’ve regretted it now had I done it.
Although the thought was tempting, I love my wife too much to actually do it.

By: cynthia

cynthia — Fri, 01 Mar 2013 14:44:51 +0000

I’ve been married for 5 years and my husband is the only guy I’ve ever been with. I do wonder what it will be having sex with other guys but then again i wonder why will u go and do that, is it because ure not getting satisfied enough because as they say” its not the size of thr boat but the way he drives it” honestly ive been very happy with my husband not only has he made 3 beautiful children but he gives me multiple orgasm. So i ask myself what makes me wonder if im fully satisfied,i wouldnt want to ruin our marriage over getting pleasured by a stranger

By: Faith

Faith — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 11:22:33 +0000

It still gives me goosebumps when I think of me & my husband & how far weve come, def too young but no regrets at all, he was 16 & i was 17 didnt give in till almost a yr later, it’s been 14 years, both grew up in this civilised country far from where our parents and their strict traditions came from, in high school years so many of my GF’s were already having sex, oral sex was the norm. I had bf’s & not once oral sex with any1. My husband was my first for all, 14 yrs, 10 yrs married recently renewed vows with family & our 6 kids . Sex is far from boring, but it’s not all about sex!! There’s more important factors then sex I would honestly put sex at number 5 out of 10. There’s still a lot more to learn together but for now we still the same lovers 14 yrs ago, I’m not missing out on anything & I’m not bragging, life isn’t perfect but we’re definitely perfect for eachother

By: Lena

Lena — Thu, 14 Feb 2013 23:58:12 +0000

I think that if you truly love someone and are meant to be together then you wouldn’t be thinking about having sex with anyone else and if you do think about it then you are not being true to yourself or your partner. Love is to be shared with the person you are dating at the time and who you are meant for and if you are feeling that it would be nice to sleep with someone else then you aren’t loyal and truly in love and shouldn’t necessarily be together. If you ask me you wont feel like you are missing out if you truly love someone.

By: Precious

Precious — Fri, 08 Feb 2013 22:50:05 +0000

I don’t think there is anything wrong with having sex with only one person. In my country it is kind of taboo for a girl too have multiple sex partners who she did not have a serious relationship with. It is one sided but more and more it is becoming somewhat accepted. But personally I only want to have sex with one person. I am a virgin and I would like to honour my religious practices by staying until marriage

By: Anna

Anna — Fri, 11 Jan 2013 01:34:03 +0000

My boyfriend is the only guy I’ve ever slept with and I hope it stays that way.

We’ve been together for 2 years, (he’s been with another girl before me), and we really love each other so much that we just want to be together. I don’t think it’s limiting my experiences. I mean, what are you going to think about during your last days? How you got to sleep with a bunch of people, a lot of them being virtual strangers to you, or how you got to share a special connection and love with a better half?

Mayeb from time to time, I will wonder what it would have been like if I were to sleep with other people, but honestly, when I try imagining myself being intimate with someone other than my boyfriend, it freaking terrifies me to the point I can’t stand imagining it.