How Do You Feel About Your Boyfriend Watching Porn?

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keyleesmommy said:

Which of you gurls do or do not approve of porn and your men watching it? What are your reasons for feeling the way you do? Also, your take on your men and strip clubs, why or why not?

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15 Comments

  1. avatar Anonymous says:

    I understand there are couples out there who are comfortable with their partners watching porn, and have a mutual understanding when it comes to porn or even checking out the opposite sex in the real world. I respect that, an I do admire the confidence and trust that those couples have with one another. I for one am against my man watching porn or checking out girls. I do understand there is beauty in everyone, but it does come off to me to be disrespectful to an extent if I know he’s watching porn or checking out other girls. Call me cheesy or what not but I am one of those believers that think when you are deeply in love an I’m taking about (YEARS into the relationship) you honestly have eyes for one. Maybe I grew up watching many cheesy romance movies lol :) I will say though early on in our relationship I didn’t hold him back, he did as he pleased checking out girls and watching porn, I just pretty much kept my mouth shut until I felt like I was able to express to him my feelings.

  2. avatar PyroGirl says:

    I have an issue with my boyfriend’s porn not because it is porn, but I’m a little uncomfortable with the kinds of porn it is… Some of the topics make me concerned, and I’m not sure if it is healthy. Rape and gangbang hentai are some of the things I find on his comp.

  3. avatar Sarah says:

    You have to be extremely mature if you’re going to watch porn. Unfortunately men usually start to watch porn at a very young age, and privately. Their minds are not mature enough, actually they don’t even have enough life experience to know that this is NOT the way sex should be. Porn objectifies and exploits women. Most pornography is extremely degrading to women. (ie. ejaculating in the woman’s face) Usually porn film titles regard to women as “girls” which is just down right disgusting or “slut”, again offensive to women. If you’re with a guy that watches porn you should seriously consider the consequences. He will most likely NOT treat you like a women. He will treat you like a porn star, because that’s probably how he learned about sex. Do you want to be treated that way? Do you want to spend your life with some sexist asshole that will make you feel like shit over and over again? There are men out there that will treat you like a lady and cherish YOU and be happy to have YOU. There’s no way for any real woman to be able to compete with fantasy porn. If your boyfriend still watches porn while he’s with you it shows how much he has taken you for granted and doesn’t appreciate you. All of us women have self esteem issues because we allow these men to let us feel this way. Every single woman needs to take a stand against this. It’s year 2012 and it’s about time we become completely emancipated from all this sexual exploitation. It shouldn’t be okay “sometimes” or “occasionally”. It’s never okay to exploit women, and it turns men into perverts. All that sexual energy men have (they do have more than us) can be used in better ways. Every time a guy gets off to fantasy porn he is getting off from it mentally and not physically. It should be the other way around. Eventually he will depend on that mental stimulation and he will start thinking of those other women from porno’s while he’s having sex with you!! So do yourself a big fav and get out of the relationship FAST!!! You won’t regret it. Cry and shed your tears but kiss that pervert goodbye. If you can’t do it for yourself do it for future women. There are way to many good men out there to stick with a nasty porn watching guy.

  4. avatar dama exclusiva says:

    me and my guy ,we dnt agree watch it learn how to do in ur on s better and more nice.

  5. avatar Jess says:

    I think it’s okay for you bf to watch porn I watch porn and he doesn’t mind sometimes we have sex and watch porn at the same time if anything I wish my boyfriend watched more porn so we can have better sex. Oo just writing about it turns me on. In fact I’m going to do it now .

  6. avatar Baby5515 says:

    I think that if a boy wants to watch porn, let him do it. He migt just end up watching it anyways, even if yu say no. Let him do what he wants. If yu don’t approve of him doing that, then maybe yu should do it for him. Why date him if yu can’t let him be himself?

  7. avatar 09lovergirl27 says:

    I’m totally against it but at times but at the end of the I kno i’m the 1 he wants so that provides a little comfort.

  8. avatar Sab says:

    its totally fine, i mean were too young to have sex so if he feels the need to he can just masturbate :)

    • avatar Gaga says:

      well i’m not sure how to take that. i mean yeah it’s true we’re not old enough but… i don’t know

  9. avatar Brinda says:

    I dn’t have any problem with my boyfren watching a porn coz at a time it wil give him experience. . .but if he gets addicted to it,itz surely going to create problem. .

  10. avatar bonny says:

    Ill be his porn ahaha

  11. avatar AR says:

    I’m against it. I’m just not comfortable with my boyfriend watching other girls do sexual things. Most girls don’t like their boyfriends checking out other girls in public places. Now, what if a naked girl was walking down the street and your boyfriend not only checked her out, but started masturbating to her? It would probably bother you. I can let it go if he watches it occasionally, but if it became regular, I would start to think that I’m not sexy enough for him.

    • avatar Sexy says:

      Don’t understand hat your so upset about porn is amazing if my man started to masturbate to another it would just turn me on and make me want to masturbate too
      So chillax let everyone watch porn

      • avatar hottt blonde babe says:

        Me & my guy dnt bother, we just do out own thing, we find it gross that anyone would ever…expose their body, it just makes peoples minds filthy…!

    • avatar blazebabygurla says:

      Agreed! Only I can’t even allow him to watch it “occasionally”. But I do have serious self-esteem issues cus I was sort of an “ugly duckling” growing up and when we all hit puberty the guys made it clear that everything was about looks and that I was butt ugly. I remember crying of happiness cus one of those jerks actually rated me a 4 out of 10. But guess what? I grew up, and now all of those guys that didn’t want me, were chasing me all through high school. And I’m actually prettier than the girls they thought were soooo hott then. But I still have self-esteem issues bc of it, hence why I want to swallow some tacks if my bf watches porn.

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