Comments on: Debate Club: Is It Okay To Flirt With A Guy Who Has A Girlfriend?

By: Autumn

Autumn — Sat, 08 Dec 2012 18:27:44 +0000

flirting is harmless. i mean we all flirt with guys that are single or taken, its not gonna lead anywhere serious! flirt away and just have fun, thats what life is all about.. having fun and actually living your life. if you think its wrong to flirt with a guy who has a gf then dont do it.. but if you think its harmless then go right ahead! its your own choice, you shouldn’t think of what others think. just ask yourself.. “is flirting with a guy that has a gf bad?” if your gut say no, then that means no. if it says yes then thats a yes… just trust YOUR OWN instincts and have fun in life

By: Bekah

Bekah — Sat, 24 Nov 2012 09:42:37 +0000

I hate it when other girls flirt with my boyfriend. Part of the problem for me, though, is that he’s friends with girls he used to hook up with. And they’re the ones flirting with him. He doesn’t reciprocate, but he definitely doesn’t stop them, even though he knows it bothers me. He downplays it, says it’s harmless and that I shouldn’t care. I know he would never cheat on me, but I still feel like they’re being disrespectful and rude, and he should make it clear that it’s inappropriate. It bothers me a lot that he doesn’t do anything to stop it. It feels like they’re slapping me in the face right in front of him and he’s telling me that I should just shrug it off.

If I was single, I wouldn’t flirt with another girl’s boyfriend simply because I don’t want to disrespect someone else, stranger or not. It might be harmless to you, but you might be causing harm to someone else’s relationship. Why put that karma on yourself?

By: Amber

Amber — Mon, 06 Aug 2012 00:06:19 +0000

Meh, I don’t really see an issue with it. If I know he has a girlfriend I definitely lay off a lot though, but if he starts flirting with me, I flirt back. Simple as that. But I still try not to cross what I see as boundaries. Which is another issue, people have waaayyy too many opinions on what boundaries you can and cannot cross.. :/

By: all that glimmers

all that glimmers — Wed, 20 Jun 2012 16:44:45 +0000

Flirting isn’t a very big deal as long as you keep an eye on the certain boundries that go in between being cute and fun to being inappropriate. I guess it also matters to put your self in the situation of “how would the girlfriend feel about this?” if she believes it’s harmless to joke around and be cute then go for it, but if you aren’t sure about the person and decided to stay on the safe side; that’s good too. Just make sure you know the boundries and take into mind how your flirting can effect the key people around you (a.k.a the boy, his girlfriend, even your self) if it’s all looking okay then have a little fun!

By: Daneka

Daneka — Wed, 04 Apr 2012 21:03:35 +0000

I TOTALLY agree w/ Jessica and Julie 2!!!!

By: diamondgrrl55

diamondgrrl55 — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 02:14:18 +0000

I dont think so cause flirting can lead to you liking him or him liking you. nothing good comes to a person who does wrong to others! yes, karma is a bi.tch!!!

By: Angela

Angela — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 21:34:56 +0000

Exactly! I hate it when girls flirt with my boyfriend of 2 years… He’s obviously not available, and if a girl wants to be friends with my boyfriend flirting is NOT the way to do that! I hate girls who flirt, they always start trouble for their own sick pleasure.

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By: turtleshelll

turtleshelll — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 20:42:58 +0000

It all depends on your definition of flirting. I am a very innocent flirt, but I do it with everyone, it’s just a part of my personality. I’m in a relationship at the moment, and still flirt with a few cute boys and my guy friends. I only feel it’s uncomfortable if the topic of sex is brought up or something else I know that I clearly shouldn’t be discussing with them. I wouldn’t do it in front of my boyfriend, but he knows that I do it, and is ok with it, because he realizes that he is the most important boy in my life.

By: purpleviolet

purpleviolet — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 19:45:24 +0000

Well…For all girls We alll know how hard it is not to flirt with someone…Even if he is tooken, especailly if we really like him. Its also hard to see some of your closest friends wtih boyfriends and them all happy and you sitting there all alone, being single! My flirt mode turns on even when i dont want it to! When even I’m around my crush or any other guy that is cute-in my opinion-bamm I’m flirting all the way! Sometimes there is no way to get out of not flirting with a guy single or not! (: