Comments on: My First Time Having Sex http://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed A teen site and community for teenage girls Fri, 11 Jan 2013 22:57:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5 By: Anonymoushttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-2/#comment-315959 Anonymous Tue, 08 Jan 2013 07:52:06 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-315959 Hi, I’m 15 years old and well my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost about 2 years. We are constantly thinkin about sex and what not. We do oral and stuff like that but I just feel like its not enough for me. We know to use protection but I’m so scared of what will happen, how it’s going to happen, I’m just too nervous about that. What do I do? I mean we’ve discussed sex before but I don’t think sex needs to be planned I believe it should happen from the moment feels right. Also when you have the courage to give up your v-card.

]]> By: Maddie Hatchhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-313294 Maddie Hatch Sun, 06 Jan 2013 03:38:55 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-313294 I lost my V-card when I was 19 with my boyfriend Kyle. I had waited so long to have sex with the right guy and in my mind Kyle was amazing. He took me to his apartment and we started watching a movie on his T.V. we were both on the couch. he leaned in to kiss me and I kissed him back. He then grabbed my waste and before I knew it he was on top of me. Kyle started to take his shirt off and I unzipped his pants. We sat up while kissing and I took my shirt off and he removed my bra. I then laid down on him and he started to squeeze me against him and then some how he managed to get his pants and mine off. He then started to grab my but and squeeze/rub it. Since it was my first time I didn’t exactly know what to do. Of course though he asked if I was okay and I kept kissing him. At one point in the night he picked me up and pressed me against the wall and grabbed my legs. We soon went to his bedroom and he laid me down on his bed and started kissing me all over and he removed his underwear. His dick was humongous and I finally started to make love to him. We went under the sheets and the night carried on. When I woke up it was before him so I got dressed when the doorbell rang and a girl told me that she left something in Kyle’s bedroom from the other night. So I left Kyle’s apartment and broke off our relationship. Trading in my V-card was horrible.

]]> By: emily24http://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-301465 emily24 Sat, 29 Dec 2012 03:31:25 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-301465 still waiting at 29…its not worth giving it away

]]> By: Krihttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-289858 Kri Fri, 21 Dec 2012 15:06:42 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-289858 It’s me again, and on wed Dec 19th around 11 o clock am, i lost my v card. Actually we swaped v cards because he was a virgin too. And it was amazing. As completely terrified as I was he was so gentle and loving and constantly checking on me and taking it very slow and telling me we could stop at any point or continue waiting.

But i followed through with our plan and i didn’t hurt badly. It was completely manageable, I didn’t bleed, and we were completely safe so I know there is no chance I am pregnant!! It was such a wonderful experience. He held me afterwards and told me how much he loves me and we talked about the future again. I now know I made the right choice and that nothing changed besides that we’re a little more in love and that i’ll marry this man. He is perfect for me and he loves me just as much as I love him.

For me, this was the right decision and I couldn’t be happier :)

]]> By: Camiihttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-2/#comment-284254 Camii Tue, 18 Dec 2012 08:47:41 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-284254 If you can barely type in english, i dont think youre old enough fo that kind of experience.
I just turned 17 2 months ago and lost my virginity about a week and a half ago. Im not sure if he was the right guy, because we used to talk day and night. But afterwards he kinda almost dropped off of the face of the earth. I mean i still see him but we never talk. So it worries me that he’d only come back for more then do the same as before. I’ve known him since the sixth grade and thought he was the love of my life freshman year. But sex didnt change anything. It really just made things worse. I wish i’d waited longer.

]]> By: Krihttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-283543 Kri Mon, 17 Dec 2012 22:43:05 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-283543 I’m nineteen, turning twenty in a month, and i’ve been going out with this amazing guy for a little shy of a year and a half. He’s seriously the most amazing man I’ve ever met. I have always hated relationships. They scared me but with him everything has been so natural and he has never pressured me at all and he absolutely and unconditionally adores me. He’s 21 and graduating. Taking over a business and working on moving out. So basically he’s set and about to take off into the adult world.

I broached the subject of sex with him because lately i’ve bee thinking of giving my virginity to him. He has promised himself to me. We even have a plan for our future. But as soon as we decided that we would make love (he is a virgin too) i randomly became terrified.. And i can’t pin point why. Especially because i want to love him completely and give myself to him. But for some reason i just am so scared. (I also get scared easily and am a nervous person haha so that definitely is playing a part)

I just don’t want things to change or for him to end up leaving me after i give it to him. Or to get pregnant.. Yeah all of these fears are real but i mean he won’t leave me (pretty sure, he’s made it vastly clear he is planning on marrying me) and sex brings you closer together and if we’re careful i shouldn’t get pregnant.

I’m just nervous because i have no one to talk to about this monumental event that is coming up soon and it’s been so drilled into my head not to have sex before marriage by my mom. She actually even asked me one day if i thought i would be able to ever give my virginity up when i was married because i hold it so close and protect it so dearly. I told her of course, but now i’m not so sure. I might not even be able to bring myself to give it to the love of my life. Ugh, why is this so scary and hard.

Plus i don’t want to hurt :(

]]> By: zzzzzzhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-2/#comment-272404 zzzzzz Tue, 11 Dec 2012 21:06:53 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-272404 I like 2

]]> By: V.Xotehttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-2/#comment-263913 V.Xote Wed, 05 Dec 2012 08:55:57 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-263913 im 21 and i had sex with my bf month ago…he was very gentle and caring as it was my first time… It didn’t bleed but hurts alot!! Also,he coundn’t even put it inside properly because it was too tight!! Does that mean i didnt lose my virginity yet?? I heard from someone that some girls didnt lose their virginity at their first time, some lost after 3 or 4 times only. Need a lil help here…please.

]]> By: Courtneyhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-2/#comment-257794 Courtney Sat, 01 Dec 2012 03:54:09 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-257794 You do not need to consult a doctor (unless it was unprotected). Sex hurts for the first time. Pretty much for everybody. Your back and stomach hurt because you were most likely using muscles that you’ve never used before. And honestly, I still get stomach pains sometimes. (And I haven’t been a virgin for over a year and a half, and have sex regularly.)
You’re just freaking yourself out because you don’t know what to expect, but you’re totally fine! Honestly, my suggestion is have sex again. It gets better, easier, and more pleasurable. Also, you don’t always bleed your first time, or ever for that matter. Whether you bleed or not doesn’t really change anything.
Relax, you’re okay!

]]> By: hannah bhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-2/#comment-239654 hannah b Tue, 20 Nov 2012 01:14:26 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-239654 what does it feel like? does it hurt really really bad? did it make u cry? is sex awkward?

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