Comments on: My First Time Having Sex http://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed A teen site and community for teenage girls Tue, 11 Jun 2013 22:01:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: larissahttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-468460 larissa Fri, 24 May 2013 08:31:33 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-468460 LOL “NO NAME” why do you recommend waiting till marriage. What benefit does that confer? Do you believe you will get a “pure man” too?
This kind of response is so so very funny and totally naive.
I lost mine in grade 7 and yes I may not have known anything but it was an experience well worth. I know you dont have to have had sex to be more confident but I think I am and perhaps more so because I am not scared by sex or what it involves ie the mystery surrounding the act. Thanks to my much older boyfriend. He is my stalworth and has helped me with my development. I have no regrets.
Sure those who want to wait till marriege, so be it. But by no means should it be a recommendation. One’s sexuality is a personal thing NOT to be guided by the shitty law or any other person or norm.

]]> By: No name pleasehttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-415662 No name please Wed, 03 Apr 2013 14:55:37 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-415662 Wait till your married

]]> By: Evhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-411000 Ev Mon, 01 Apr 2013 08:20:19 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-411000 ” It did not hurt! It was perfect”
I lost my v-card at the age of 18 2 weeks from turning 19. He was my first boyfriend ever and we were dating for 8 months before I decided to have sex with him. We were very in love and I knew from the start he was a good guy. I was nervous at first because all of my friends said it hurt their first time. Mine was perfect and 100% did not hurt and that was because 1 I was ready & 2 I was comfortable with the guy I was with. 4 years later we are still together and happy as ever. Your virginity is a precious thing and is something that can not be rushed. =)

]]> By: filicityhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-381916 filicity Sat, 09 Mar 2013 02:05:40 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-381916 wow i thougth i was the alone at young age reading these qoutes or stroyies made me feel better

]]> By: Alehttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-367623 Ale Mon, 25 Feb 2013 03:35:01 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-367623 Hey I’m 21 and I’m still a virgin. I know this is the stereotypical guy idea but i don’t know how to keep myself in check, I really want to have sex and I’m second guessing myself on not having sex till now. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 2 years, I love her and she’s a virgin too and she is scared. Of course i won’t have sex with her until she is ready and ok but i guess I’m getting sexually frustrated. Can anyone give me idea on how to control these urges?

]]> By: Monicahttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-356985 Monica Thu, 14 Feb 2013 03:07:59 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-356985 is that by choice or circumstance, emily??
Do you breathe, eat, drink, defecate, sleep, walk, talk etc etc ? Well sex is a similar necessary function. Yes you may not want to have sex but laying a moral value on it is not necessary.
Remember you are at an age when your market value will dwindle. The natural laws of atraction and mating dictate that the younger female species are the ones in demand.
There is NEVER the right time or the RIGHT PERSON. It is all a matter of give and take and compromise. In the same way as you think no guy is worth your virginity, guys may think the same of you.
You need to understand that everyone has their flaws that can be modified and made user friendly. The idea is not to look for flaws but to search for positive aspects that give your fulfillment and pleasure and qualities that you may find attractive.
There is too much emphasis on detecting negatives and by doing so many good opportunities will pss you by.
Yes you may want to stay high up on the shelf collecting dust. At some stage you will want a companion, but it might be all too late. I dont say just rush in, I say be sensible with your expectations.

]]> By: Anonymoushttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-2/#comment-315959 Anonymous Tue, 08 Jan 2013 07:52:06 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-315959 Hi, I’m 15 years old and well my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost about 2 years. We are constantly thinkin about sex and what not. We do oral and stuff like that but I just feel like its not enough for me. We know to use protection but I’m so scared of what will happen, how it’s going to happen, I’m just too nervous about that. What do I do? I mean we’ve discussed sex before but I don’t think sex needs to be planned I believe it should happen from the moment feels right. Also when you have the courage to give up your v-card.

]]> By: Maddie Hatchhttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-313294 Maddie Hatch Sun, 06 Jan 2013 03:38:55 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-313294 I lost my V-card when I was 19 with my boyfriend Kyle. I had waited so long to have sex with the right guy and in my mind Kyle was amazing. He took me to his apartment and we started watching a movie on his T.V. we were both on the couch. he leaned in to kiss me and I kissed him back. He then grabbed my waste and before I knew it he was on top of me. Kyle started to take his shirt off and I unzipped his pants. We sat up while kissing and I took my shirt off and he removed my bra. I then laid down on him and he started to squeeze me against him and then some how he managed to get his pants and mine off. He then started to grab my but and squeeze/rub it. Since it was my first time I didn’t exactly know what to do. Of course though he asked if I was okay and I kept kissing him. At one point in the night he picked me up and pressed me against the wall and grabbed my legs. We soon went to his bedroom and he laid me down on his bed and started kissing me all over and he removed his underwear. His dick was humongous and I finally started to make love to him. We went under the sheets and the night carried on. When I woke up it was before him so I got dressed when the doorbell rang and a girl told me that she left something in Kyle’s bedroom from the other night. So I left Kyle’s apartment and broke off our relationship. Trading in my V-card was horrible.

]]> By: emily24http://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-301465 emily24 Sat, 29 Dec 2012 03:31:25 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-301465 still waiting at 29…its not worth giving it away

]]> By: Krihttp://www.gurl.com/2012/03/14/losing-my-virginity-sex-on-a-waterbed/comment-page-3/#comment-289858 Kri Fri, 21 Dec 2012 15:06:42 +0000 http://www.gurl.com/?p=56400#comment-289858 It’s me again, and on wed Dec 19th around 11 o clock am, i lost my v card. Actually we swaped v cards because he was a virgin too. And it was amazing. As completely terrified as I was he was so gentle and loving and constantly checking on me and taking it very slow and telling me we could stop at any point or continue waiting.

But i followed through with our plan and i didn’t hurt badly. It was completely manageable, I didn’t bleed, and we were completely safe so I know there is no chance I am pregnant!! It was such a wonderful experience. He held me afterwards and told me how much he loves me and we talked about the future again. I now know I made the right choice and that nothing changed besides that we’re a little more in love and that i’ll marry this man. He is perfect for me and he loves me just as much as I love him.

For me, this was the right decision and I couldn’t be happier :)

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