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Number Of Sexual Partners
For some reason, the number of people a girl has slept with always seems to be a big deal – even though it’s really no one’s business but your own. But forget about what everyone else thinks… does the amount of people you’ve had sex with matter to you? Do you have a personal limit on how many people you can do the deed with, or do you really not care?
Basically, we want to know what you think is an acceptable number for yourself. Some girls refuse to break a certain amount, while other girls really don’t see it as a big deal. We thought about this after we saw this post on the message boards – so read what these awesome girls had to say, and then let us know what you think.
missb asked:
Does the amount of sexual partners you’ve had matter to you? I used to think so but now not so much.
kung_fu_kiddo said:
No. Each sexual relationship that I’ve had has been a learning experience. I’ve only had sex with 3 people. I don’t place so much emphasis on the number of people I’ve effed so much as I do on the overall experience, and what it taught me about myself, as well as myself in relation to others.
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giggles4you143 said:
My number matters to me. Sex is a big deal to me, for me to share my body and be that intimate with someone is a big gift.I have been with 2 people. I am proud that I have a low number. But I do not judge others when they sleep around. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and sex means something different to everyone. The only person who should judge you on your number, is you.
Our opinion? We really loved what giggles4you had to say – while we think sex is a big deal, we also agree that it means something different to everyone. I can’t speak for all of the Gurl.com editors, but personally, my number does matter to me.
And if your number doesn’t mean anything to you? No big deal… it doesn’t mean you don’t see sex as unimportant, or that you have no morals. And no one should ever judge you for who you’ve been with other than yourself.
Who do you agree with? Is your number important to you? Tell us in the comments.
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I didn’t believe the ‘number’ was important. but after watching this film, i started to doubt myself. but is the amount of people you have sex with, really important? i mean, the only person who should really have the number is you. does a guy really mind how many partners you’ve had? would your opinion change of him over his number? i think as long as your happy with your number there’s no shame in it. sometimes sex is just that, sex. its your past, and if he wants to be your future then he’ll just have to accept it. if you chose to tell him, or anyone that is. I’m at 19, the same as in the film, ironically.. and I’m not ashamed of that.
im 16 and have had sex with three people. ive gone to a private school my whole life up until my sophomore year. honestly, i dont regret any of the times i had sex. it made me happy at the moment and you should never regret something that made you happy. i wasnt in a relationship with any of the guys, but i can say i was best friends and still am best friends with them today. people are often quick to judge without looking at themselves first. honestly if i hear about a girl that has slept with someone, or sleeps around a lot, ive learned not to judge because im not perfect either. its all a learning experience. and in 10 years, no one is even going to remember who you slept with let alone care.