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My first boyfriend, Alexander, had an after school job on the ice cream truck. I went to an all girls school for middle school and high school, so I literally started dating the first cute guy who rolled through my block!
Alex was a hottie. Tall with caramel skin and a crooked smile. He seemed so much more interesting than the preppy guys that hung around my school.
My favorite thing about Alex was that he appreciated my need to take things super slow. He made me giddy even though we were just holding hands. When I was 16 we had our first kiss. It was at night outside my parents house just as I was about to rush in for curfew. He grabbed me and kissed me–with passion and tongue. It was intense.
After that, he started to tell me that whenever I was ready to have sex for the first time, he would be ready too. Then it was two months before my 18th birthday. We knew that once school ended it would be harder for me to sneak away to hang out.
He arranged for us to go to his grandmother’s house. She was out of town. He had sexy music playing already and roses for me when I got there. I was excited… and terrified. I asked him to turn off the lights and it was pitch black. I loved him so much.
Alex undressed me and then got on top of me and moved up and down a few times. Then he kissed me again. It felt good but I was waiting for something dramatic to happen. I wasn’t even sure he was inside. Then he turned on the lights and slid off the used condom. That’s it?! My first time was over before I really knew that it had started.
Are you still waiting to have sex? If you’ve already had sex, what was your first time like? Were you happy about it or was it kind of awkward like my first time having sex? Tell me everything in the comments!
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The first time I had sex I was 19. My boy friend is 29. I was at his aptartment. We had just come in from the swimming pool. We took a shower togather. We had been dating for six months. I happy that we did not rush into having sex. He tied me down to the bed spred eagle. Fore play was about an hour. Then we had great sex that nite. I cum so many time that night, I lost count. And we are still having great sex.
Wel i met dis guy 2o06 nd dts wen we startd d8n i was 13 nd he was 15,we d8d 4 a year til one dae he invytd me to hiz h0use. . . Wel we strtd kissn nd undresn eachda wen he was penetr8n sl0w i felt so nt comfrtble nd axd hm to st0p,wel he did nd i strtd bleedng,he ddnt cum coz hiz thng ddnt rly go insyd myn. . . We nva c0ntinued 4rm dt yr whch was 2007 then we had pr0per sex in 2011 4 d 1st tym. . . Wel i bled again bt dis tym i was rdy nd am glad we stl d8n til 2dae. . . 2013. . . Ts bin 7yrz,am 19 n0w nd he’z 21 we lav eachda s0 much nd ystrdae he cme into my h0use nd we had sum. . .
. . . . U knw wat am twkn bwt. . . Reneilwe
My god…learn to type.
when i slept with my boyfriend for the first time he got me pregnant and now my mom pretty much hates him but since he’s the father of her grandchild she can’t do much about it. what makes it more awkward is that my whole church found out and my best friend slpet with his brother!!
I lost my virginity when I was about to turn 13. I was scared and very nervous. I felt awkward and so self conscious. But that was because of my inhibitions and being scared that something bad might happen. The guy was my neighbour and he was new to the place. I liked him because he was cute and i didnt mind that he was a lot older. I would watch him from my window. He came to my place one day when I was alone. This was after school. I told him no one was home and my mom would be back late. I was so glad he didnt ask me my age. We started kissing and he started doing stuff. I liked it but I was so scared and nervous being my first time especially when he started going down on me. He kept doing that for a while till I was so out of control. I kept telling him that i didnt want to get into trouble. He reassured me and told me to relax and just enjoy the feeling.I realised I was going to lose my virginity when he took his clothes off and it was the first time I had ever seen a guy with an erection. He got me on the edge of the bed and bent my knees and opened my legs and then told me to relax because he was going to enter me. He was so gentle and forced it into me gently. At times as he was penetrating me I would close my legs reflexly. It was the most awesome feeling as he started thrusting his penis in and out.
Do I regret it?? I dont. I know I was very scared but I now realise that most girls don’t enjoy their first time because they are so worked up and scared that they forget to have fun and enjoy the sensations. I think also the fact that he was a lot older was scary but I liked that maturity and how caring he was. We started doing it a lot. At times at his place, sometimes at mine when my mom was at work. He later told me he knew I was a lot younger when he undressed me the first time we had sex. He knew he would make me feel awlward if he asked me how old I was, so he just didnt ask me my age. He was a real cool guy. He is back in Canada now continuing his research.
I can honestly say that though I was scared I thoroughly enjoyed my first time and the numerous times I had sex after that.
my first time have sex my god was it gooooooooood!!!!!!!!!! i ask her can i call you her name was brandy
My first time wasnt like that at all…
my first time was when i was 13. i know i know . i was young.. but i was also stupid.. me and this guy named dimitri went camping with a couple friends…. we slept by 4 other people and when we thought they fell asleep we went at it… it was in the woods and we didnt have a tent… so we had blinkets down on dthe groufd. but when e whewre haveing sex i ke tp getting podked in the butt wth ia stikc.. that was not fun lol.. but ad soon as he camehe wa s asking me if i could hand him his shirt .. tha everyonen that was laying nxt to us whwere all like GROSS! O MY GOX! THANKB GOD UR DONE! it was sooooooo embarassing