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Dear Ethan: Does a guy really care if you have massive boobs during sex? My friend is really self-conscious about her body sometimes, and all she talks about is how guys want girls with big boobs. It’s starting to make me a little worried.
As I’ve revealed here at Ask A Guy before, the honest truth is that all men – just like women – do have personal preferences. And just as some girls find themselves especially attracted to men of specific height, hair color, or calf size, some men are into larger breasts.
Is it possible that some of these guys might rule out dating girls with anything less than watermelon-sized boobs? Sure, it’s possible. But from my experience, most of these men will be open-minded enough to appreciate the many other positive qualities of less endowed women. I, for example, am a real-life “Breast Man” who has happily dated – and even loved – women with smaller boobs.
Lea Michele might not have much, but who wouldn't hook up with her?
Furthermore, even though most guys might enjoy breasts to some extent, tastes can vary wildly from person to person. In fact, about half of the breastophiles I know actually prefer smaller cup sizes! And even better news for your horizontally-challenged friend is that most of the guys I know actually favor butts or legs. If your friend is worried about what guys will think of her smaller boobs, all she needs is a man who can appreciate her greatest assets, whatever they may be. There’s even someone out there who will go gaga over those sexy earlobes of hers.
So learn to love your greatest features and use them to lure a lucky guy in. As I always say, confidence is far more alluring than any appendage (or two) can ever be. And if all else fails, just remember that most guys are so thrilled to be having sex in the first place, they likely won’t have any body part to complain about but their own (just ask my buddy, “Six Second” Steve).
Good luck!
Ethan
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Wow. After reading this, I feel like crap about my big boobs. Thanks.
He’s not saying that big boobs are bad, hes saying that most men will like you regardless if youre a B cup or a DD.
yknow, one day i had a heart to heart convo with a guy friend, he always brags about how he loooooooves big boobs or assss. but in this convo, he said he was just kidding, it really doesn’t matter. even if guys act like that, doesn’t mean they really are, a lot of guys care about the inside, and your real looks.
I used to feel really uncomfortable if I wasn’t wearing a bra, but now I really love not wearing one! Sometimes I do get some looks from guys on the street I could do without but I do it for me because it’s how I feel most comfortable. I think as long as you are or aren’t wearing a padded or regular bra because it makes YOU feel good and not because you think you SHOULD wear one, then you don’t have anything to worry about
I have guy friends and i once asked them if they’re really prefer a bigger boobs to their prospective girls, and they say yes.. well we can’t blame guys, they usually feel lust first before this “love thing”.. and when the time comes off and realized they really in love, no matter how little your boobs is or you are totally flat chested, it won’t matter to him!
Girls with smaller boobs are lucky. Not only are big breats uncomfortable, but guys like to use girls with big boobs as play toys. I know this from past experiences. Every time a guy likes me everyone says”she is pretty but he only likes her for her boobs”. That is what I hear everytime a guy likes me. Be proud of what you have. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.
I’d rather a guy not have to settle for my small breasts just because he “loves” me. I want him to love everything about me, and not act like a mother/father who will love their kids even if she had three heads.
Hiya!
I have really small boobs like 34 A :/ but I’ve learned to embrace my lovely (little) ladies! Also the boys that I hang out with don’t care about my chest size because, I have really long legs so I make a point to show them off every now and then. If you want a tip for small breasts do some push ups before you go to bed, I’d say around 20, this builds chests muscles, so that even though your boobs might not be as big as other girls you’ll still have quite a perky pair on your hands 
and none of the boys in my school have ever complained! Keep positive about yourself and accept your body for what it is! 
hope I helped a bit!
My breast size is pretty much my only complex so i’m happy that my boyfriend is always telling me they’re the perfect the way they are. If my bras have a little bit of padding its pretty much just for me XD!
Some men do like big boobs bit some like small ones….I know some men that do prefer smaller breasted women, but if you get the right guy then he won’t care he will love your whole body…and not just your breast or booty
im always worried dat my tummy is bigger dan my uppers.my friends dnt exactly help eithr
I’ll admit, I’ve always dreamed of having problems because my boobs are too big! Whenever I heard girls complaining that their boobs are too big, I used to- and still do- ask myself if they have any idea how many girls would kill to have those problems.
That’s right, Cleo. Often, the grass always seems greener on the other side, no matter what you look like. Just remember that!
-Ethan
I have actually been “gifted”, so to speak… but I’ve noticed my boyfriend wouldn’t care either way and doesn’t make a big deal out of them. And that actually makes me MORE comfortable around him. When a guy seems to not mind your body, no matter what he’s thinking on the inside, and loves other features such as your eyes, hair, brains, etc. then you know the relationship is based on something more than sex.
Amen, Lalala! Great insight — thank you for writing!
-Ethan
idk all the boys like my boobs
In my school most of the guys care about boobs and asses. So… Yes, they do. But there are some that care about your personality and inner beauty. and not about your body and face.
Once you get out of school you actually find guys who don’t care so much about ass and tits.
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Well, I’m self-conscious because I feel like my boobs are too BIG for my age. I really don’t like it…. and I try to cover up.
Don’t worry, Dannie — soon, every girl will be jealous of what you’re working with (and the guys will surely be paying attention, too…)!
-Ethan
Wow Ethan, contradiction much? “Every” girl will be jealous? And the guys will love them, too? Every guy? You seem to be speaking out of both sides of your mouth. I think you’re full of crap, honestly. I think you lied through this whole article. Typical man. Go screw yourself, kay? Thanks.
There is this kid I used to like in fourth grade but he never liked me. Now that I’m in fifth grade( I am eleven but inside I’m like14.) He teases me playfully saying I am a green giant because I’m so tall. Also he calls me Sky Blu. Sky is my name, but I thought blu was my middle name. We even have a poking game were we do pressure points on each other which is really fun. I still like him a little but, does HE like me?
Sounds like he likes you, Sky! Check out my article titled “Is He Into Me” (http://www.gurl.com/ask-a-guy-advice-is-he-into-me/) — it might help you out a bit.
-Ethan
Finally a guy who understands the pressures of bra-shopping! lol
well when it comes to boobs it’s all well and good for guys but for us it’s a real struggle trying to hide them and look through tons an tons of bras with different colors,shapes,sizes and still dying over the prices. i got one today that cost $13.00 plus tax.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yeah, I know some girls who have spent over $50 on sexy bras for their boyfriends! Just know that we guys appreciate the boob-struggle you go through on a daily basis.
Really!
-Ethan
hahahahaahaha six second steve OH GOD hahahahahah
haha, im glad at least someone can find something good to come out of Six Second Steve’s pain…
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