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> <channel><title>Comments on: Debate Club: Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex?</title> <atom:link href="http://www.gurl.com/2012/01/27/friends-with-ex/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/01/27/friends-with-ex/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=friends-with-ex</link> <description>A teen site and community for teenage girls</description> <lastBuildDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 21:29:17 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1</generator> <item><title>By: Ally</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/01/27/friends-with-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-75416</link> <dc:creator>Ally</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 00:09:39 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=48265#comment-75416</guid> <description><![CDATA[My ex is now one of my bestfriends who is now dating one of my other besties. I&#039;m sorta jealous but I can just ignore it we are still friends.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My ex is now one of my bestfriends who is now dating one of my other besties. I&#8217;m sorta jealous but I can just ignore it we are still friends.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: MarleyEnsor</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/01/27/friends-with-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-64630</link> <dc:creator>MarleyEnsor</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2012 00:05:39 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=48265#comment-64630</guid> <description><![CDATA[you can absolutely be friends with an ex, my best friend right now is my ex(:]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you can absolutely be friends with an ex, my best friend right now is my ex(:</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Sex On The Wire: Sex Lessons From Downton Abbey</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/01/27/friends-with-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-58101</link> <dc:creator>Sex On The Wire: Sex Lessons From Downton Abbey</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 20:40:16 +0000</pubDate> <guid
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=48265#comment-57959</guid> <description><![CDATA[I also dated Mike for 4years which made our break up severally hard and kind of still is today .. When I see him with his new GF I put my &#039;big-girl panties&#039; on and suck it up.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also dated Mike for 4years which made our break up severally hard and kind of still is today .. When I see him with his new GF I put my &#8216;big-girl panties&#8217; on and suck it up.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Natashia</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/01/27/friends-with-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-57957</link> <dc:creator>Natashia</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 03:56:06 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=48265#comment-57957</guid> <description><![CDATA[I agree with Melanie, I have never had a problem with becoming friends with my ex-BF&#039;s over a period of about 4 or 5months. My ex Mike has always been there since we were kids we were bestie before we dated and still are today. We thought it would be weird and ruin our friendship if we dated but it didn&#039;t really change it all that much. I still love him a lot and wish that I could still be with him but he has a beautiful girlfriend so I am waiting til I get through some of college to see if me and him still have that certain &#039;spark&#039;. I feel like we do, since we always talk and sometimes he accidently calls me &#039;baby&#039;. It makes me laugh.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Melanie, I have never had a problem with becoming friends with my ex-BF&#8217;s over a period of about 4 or 5months. My ex Mike has always been there since we were kids we were bestie before we dated and still are today. We thought it would be weird and ruin our friendship if we dated but it didn&#8217;t really change it all that much. I still love him a lot and wish that I could still be with him but he has a beautiful girlfriend so I am waiting til I get through some of college to see if me and him still have that certain &#8216;spark&#8217;. I feel like we do, since we always talk and sometimes he accidently calls me &#8216;baby&#8217;. It makes me laugh.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Candy Dish: TV&#8217;s Fave TV Shows : CollegeCandy</title><link>http://www.gurl.com/2012/01/27/friends-with-ex/comment-page-1/#comment-57839</link> <dc:creator>Candy Dish: TV&#8217;s Fave TV Shows : CollegeCandy</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 15:01:50 +0000</pubDate> <guid
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.gurl.com/?p=48265#comment-57420</guid> <description><![CDATA[I think that you can definitely be friends, just not right away. My first relationship was a short thing, and we stayed friends to this day, but that was because i didn&#039;t try to rush back into friendship mode with him right after our break-up. Then the next relationship i had was longer and when we broke up i tried to shove my way back into friendship mode, because i missed him and wanted to spend time with him. but whenever we were hanging out with both of our girl and guy friends, and when he was alone with some girls, i was freaking out in my mind! I felt so stupid for being jealous of my girlfriends who i know didn&#039;t like him, but i realized that i couldn&#039;t help it because i still had feelings for him, so i knew we had to stay away from each other for awhile. we both still tried to work it out later, but we&#039;re not friends anymore. I think its better to wait until you are sure you no longer feel the sick heartbreak feeling, then you can go be friends with them!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that you can definitely be friends, just not right away. My first relationship was a short thing, and we stayed friends to this day, but that was because i didn&#8217;t try to rush back into friendship mode with him right after our break-up. Then the next relationship i had was longer and when we broke up i tried to shove my way back into friendship mode, because i missed him and wanted to spend time with him. but whenever we were hanging out with both of our girl and guy friends, and when he was alone with some girls, i was freaking out in my mind! I felt so stupid for being jealous of my girlfriends who i know didn&#8217;t like him, but i realized that i couldn&#8217;t help it because i still had feelings for him, so i knew we had to stay away from each other for awhile. we both still tried to work it out later, but we&#8217;re not friends anymore. I think its better to wait until you are sure you no longer feel the sick heartbreak feeling, then you can go be friends with them!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>