Comments on: Rant: Don’t Call Me A Slut. Don’t Call Her One Either.

By: Dominique.

Dominique. — Thu, 03 Jan 2013 08:49:21 +0000

I get called a slut because I told my friend that I had sex. Well the thing people don’t know is that I was raped In the 8th grade. The sad thing is I have a lot of guy’s hitting on and I start to like them. Just to find out they only want sex.

By: Bunnie

Bunnie — Wed, 26 Dec 2012 08:42:28 +0000

Well,I love this article, because someone finally addressed this issue. I read the comments and see, most are virgins that are shamed. As you can see im 15, but I am not a virgin. Nor have I had “numerous partners”, and my sex life (don’t have one at the moment) moment is put on blast.my story is quite complicated and chances are if no one heard mt side of the story I would be seen as a slut. Everytime I hear the word, I cringe. It is such a horrible word. Even those who have numerous partners, its none of my(or yours) business, so why judge? Sex is the ultimate form of love to me, maybe not so much to others.but thats their life, not mine. Now, about boyfriends.i wouldn’t call her a slut, I couldn’t hate her. She may be a jerk, but my boyfriend had also been apart of it too. If she did something to him, other words would come into play, but not “slut”. They call a girl at my school a slut. Why? They talk about rumors and say it’s true, they weren’t there. Why would they be, either way, its none of anyone’s damn business what she, or anyone, does. Thats my thoughts.

By: Abby

Abby — Tue, 18 Dec 2012 04:31:29 +0000

people call me a slut alot.i hate the way it feels:(

By: Siera345

Siera345 — Tue, 11 Dec 2012 16:04:29 +0000

People at skool are always calling me a slut and a whore and my counselor tells me there just jelous about me being a virgin

By: Naomi

Naomi — Tue, 02 Oct 2012 18:50:21 +0000

I have been being called a ho, slut, and whore at church because I brok up with the pastors son and the same day I had another boyfriend. I haven’t ever had sex or anything so I really don’t understand why they are calling me that stuff. To be honest with you it is making me hate church and I know that’s not good. :/ I feel like an out cast there because I am the only girl in the you that actually looks like a female and the are calling me that stuff just because they are jealous. I have all of the guys by me all of the time. I don’t like it, I don’t want it that way. I can’t even get the guys to hook up with my friends because they say I’m so “sexy”. It just gives me a complex and actually makes me feel like a slut. I am tired of it. Yeah, sometimes I enjoy having all of the guys with me but I also feel bad later. Even my best friend is calling me a slut, AND SHE’S THE ONE THAT GOT CAUGHT MAKEING OUT BEHIND THE CHURCH!!! I have never even kissed anyone. I have been kissed but I didn’t kiss back because the guy was an absolute freak( the pastors son)

By: Lexi

Lexi — Sun, 09 Sep 2012 02:27:01 +0000

Ok people call me a slut bc I wear red lipgloss and a hoe for wearing short shorts and this year my ex boyfriend called me a penny bc I’m in everybody’s pant first off I have been single for 10 months and Im still a virgin I haven’t even had my first kiss

By: LittleRedWolf

LittleRedWolf — Wed, 05 Sep 2012 22:04:45 +0000

It is sad how (especially in high school), girls cannot win no matter what. No sex? Prude, ice queen, tease, etc. Has sex? Doesn’t matter if it’s with her committed BF or a few guys she isn’t dating, she becomes a slut, easy, whatever you want to call it. It’s really unfortunate, especially because for guys, it’s pretty black and white. When they’re virgins, they get teased about it, but once they have sex, they’re hailed as heroes, and the more girls they get in bed with, the better they are. It’s a double-standard and totally not fair, at ALL.
I’m glad I now go to a school (college) that’s more mature and doesn’t care at all what you do (the fact that it’s in SF doesn’t hurt, either).

By: LittleRedWolf

LittleRedWolf — Wed, 05 Sep 2012 22:00:49 +0000

Should you brag about it? Probably not, since that’s sharing your private, intimate business with everyone. But it doesn’t make you a slut. Nor does sleeping with a fair number of people mean you are going around taking pride in it, or doing it just to say you did. Most women who sleep around do it for the same reason guys do: for pleasure. As long as they are being safe, and know what it is when it happens (“This is a one-night stand, we’re hooking up for pleasure, and we both know it”), then there is no problem.

By: Mary

Mary — Tue, 21 Aug 2012 21:32:30 +0000

I’m a virgin too but calling girls slurs is plain wrong, like she said in the article men have been doing that just to harm us and pull us down just so they can use us for what they like. Being hurtful to someone is a disgrace to not only womanhood but mankind. Well all have sex most likely in our life time so why judge someone just because they did it before you? It’s my personal goal to wait til I’m married or least in a stable commited relationship with someone I love, but other girls want to do it know with their boyfriend. It’s not up to you or anyone to judge what they’ve done in the privacy of wherever they were.

By: AwkwardActress

AwkwardActress — Sun, 12 Aug 2012 04:01:13 +0000

I totally agree. No girl, not even your school ‘s biggest “slut”, deserves to be labeled at patronized for her own personal business. Just because you wouldn’t do it, doesn’t mean she can’t. Highschool is like a demented petri dish for all this childish name-calling and behind-your-back insults. It’s discusting the way some people treat one another.