Comments on: Debate Club: Is Oral Sex A Big Deal?

By: Girlsaredumb

Girlsaredumb — Wed, 14 Nov 2012 21:01:23 +0000

wheres the logic here? Are most of you that stupid? I wanna keep my virginity or not give it up yet, so I’ll let him use my face instead… and thats less intimate? Lol and ugh at the same time. I fear for this generation. Is it so you can say ya I’m a virgin, but have actually blown like ten guys? I’m also sad for all your future men who think you are decent when you feed them the virgin line. what happened to girls?

By: Julie

Julie — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 19:28:56 +0000

I went thru a period of time in college when giving BJs was an everyday thing. At several parties the girls and I would see how many we could give. I’d give anything to get my dignity and respect back.

Currently in a relationship and love giving oral sex. It should be taken seriously as sex.

By: candy

candy — Tue, 10 Apr 2012 19:22:36 +0000

i had oral sex before i had sex with my bf. he is my frist and only, i think oral sex is fine just as long as u know the person ur doing it with, and he did me wayy before i did him. its all about love and trust.

By: MmmBubble

MmmBubble — Tue, 21 Feb 2012 23:28:02 +0000

To me, it used to be a big deal. But then I actually gave head and now its second nature.

By: PrettyGURLRocks

PrettyGURLRocks — Fri, 17 Feb 2012 16:31:12 +0000

I don’t think oral sex is that “BIG OF A DEAL”. It’s not like you are planning on going around blowing EVERYBODY. Yes, it is apart of sex and it’s way different than loosing your viginity. Some girls prefer to do that then to be all the way intimate . And if you’re in a relationship with that person and you love each other dearly….
- – Why Not ?

By: bons

bons — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 13:19:23 +0000

Oral sex is a serious business. If you give a blow job to one guy you give oral sex to all his partners. There has been a trend where oral sex has been the “way to go” to preserve virginity. It will definitely preserve the Hymen but you are opening yourself and others up to STD’s.
I have a friend whose step-sister just had her tongue removed because of a tumor. The cause: STD’s. To remove the tumor the Doctors opened her jaw by cutting through the front of her mouth, down her chin and down to her throat. Fourteen hours of surgery. They replace her tongue with muscle from her arm. The next day they realized that did not work so they went in for another 11 hour and removed muscle from her leg to replace the muscle from the day before. Not only will she be unable to speak but will have to go through major physiotherapy for her arm and leg. If all goes well she will be speaking somewhat understandably with in 2 years.
My friend say it is bad. Real bad. She is not sure if it could be worst.

Is it worth it?

By: RegretfulGirl

RegretfulGirl — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 05:15:30 +0000

Oral sex is just as serious as sex, if not more! I think a lot of people don’t think about getting STD’s through oral sex as much as through sex, but it is very possible! I got herpes from a guy giving me oral sex. THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU DO IT!!

By: Justinlove5555

Justinlove5555 — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 21:02:12 +0000

It does not mean as much as sex. When you have sex, it’s so different. If you have oral sex, it’s not that big of a seal.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 23:41:30 +0000

I think that oral sex isn’t that big of a deal. Like it is when it comes to STD’s! But emotional and age stuff, I just think it’s up to you. it shouldn’t be something that you need to think about as much as sex. Sex is way bigger,and means SO much more. I would highly think of sex,and i still do. But I don’t really care much to,make out,or give a blowjob. I would deffinitly make him wear a condom,if i were to give him a blowjob.

By: Saddie

Saddie — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 05:10:53 +0000

to me sex is way more intimate and oral sex isnt that big of a deal unless your lover makes it that big of a deal