Comments on: Ask A Guy: Is He Into Me?

By: Grace

Grace — Sat, 05 Jan 2013 08:35:07 +0000

So I can’t stop thinking about this. I was talking to this guy for about two months. We really hit it off from the start but a few things happened in between that caused us to drift for a period. Soon later I messaged him again and we fell back on track again. We had both admitted to liking each other. He was away on a trip and we had made plans to hang out when he came back. He was supposed to come back in 2 days but after saying bye to him that night he just stopped talking to me. I can’t think of any possible reason but I’m refraining from contacting him. Is there a reason for his actions? What should I do?

By: Esther Place

Esther Place — Mon, 17 Dec 2012 21:30:05 +0000

My question for you, is Why do guys like to “little-sister” zone me? I have a lot of male friends who absolutely love me! They confide in me, joke-around with me, make time to spend with me, and will choose me over even their guy-friends on most days but they do not like me. They view me as their little sister, and that is about it. I really love that I can be friends with so many guys without the awkward “I like you” tension, but when it comes to a guy I like, I do not want to be his little sister.

By: Victoria

Victoria — Mon, 17 Dec 2012 06:53:01 +0000

Alright, well there is this guy that I’ve known for about three years now. We have always gotten along great. Recently he’s started showing me signs that he maybe wants to be more than friends and I am so for that idea. He’s a great guy and he’s there for me when I need him and makes me things (his secret recipe cupcakesthat I LOVE). He’s also just randomly started showing up a lot more and has joined clubs that I’m in. He gets jealous when I mention other guys. The problem is that he is either really flirtatious or really distant. At one moment it’s like we’re just friends and the next he’s gotten me alone and he’s being romantic and for a moment it looked like he might kiss me but then he just got really quiet. He keeps sending mixed signals and I don’t know what to do. He’s even had a talk with my best girl friend, initiated by her behind my back, on whether or not he liked me and then couldn’t give her a straight answer. He always till comes to see me, but I’m just so done with his games.
I don’t know if he likes me for real or is just messing with me, and how I can get him to be more upfront with me.

By: Alex

Alex — Thu, 13 Dec 2012 02:06:05 +0000

and if he doesnt want me to be the rebound guy…..why still come over? we dont have sex everytime and again we enjoy the company. ok. thanks for listening. i am eager to hear what you all say.

By: Alex

Alex — Thu, 13 Dec 2012 02:03:29 +0000

Ive been dating a guy for over a month know. we live about 25 miles apart. Everyday I have been off, he has come over and stayed the night. he works during the week, i work the weekends (i will fix that so we can have weekends together). However, he (yea were both guys), was out of a 9 year realtionship that was sour for most of the times. we have sex, he says thwe right things…but one thing he did say was “i dont want you to be a rebound guy” but we both like each other. He is moving this weekend (out of the exs), and I am waiting to see if things change. In gay culture its tough however him and i are very traditional so that part im not worried about. I trust him, but My question is…….when is the right time to see “if there is a next step” and how do I approach that. I dont want to screw anything up, but i dont want a fwb. The other question is…..tongiht he went to a play with his friends. that bought tickets for him. Because we are not exclusive yet (im soo new to dating since i am so traditional) but iu guess i need you ladies to help me out here. I dont want to scare him away and i dont think he wants to do the same. we connect very well.

By: Grace

Grace — Mon, 03 Dec 2012 20:45:22 +0000

There’s this guy i knw since we were kids til now we are friends he say that he trusts n likes me what does that mean

By: Ashley

Ashley — Sat, 01 Dec 2012 05:34:05 +0000

I’m dating this guy. It was great for a while ten I stoppe feeling anything for him. All during our relationship whenever it was me and his friend “s” he would alaways act flirty and everyone noticed but I didn’t really read into it until one day I actually started liking s. I knew I had to break up with the guy Im dating (I’m going to!) but I went to this ge at my school and I sat between the two of them. The guy I I’m dating got really protective and he held my hand real right but I still had subtle shoulder or leg or hand touches with “s” and we had such good conversation. The thing is I don’t know if he likes me the other guy or am I just reading to much into his actions?

By: OnlyOneOfMe

OnlyOneOfMe — Sat, 01 Dec 2012 04:10:57 +0000

Ok,So He and I have known each other since like,I was born basically.And we used to do like Hang out ALL the time…We used to go to horse shows and annoy the bigger kids,then run because they got mad,and go to the mall and just play, and hang out at my grandfather’s house.That’s the only place we could hang out alone together at because my mother doesn’t get along with his mother.But anyway,we had the BEST times with each other.He was my best friend I Never would have again..He is one year older than me.But he failed a grade so we are both in the same grade,different school..We were about 7 and 8 at the horse show and hanging out together and stuff..we didn’t do anything bad lol we were kids..And..when I was ten,Im 12 now and he’s 13,there was this ONE day,we were playing Black ops together,Yes,still together,not dating,never even thought about dating..I went to the kitchen and his mom was there(i get along with his mom most of the time)and she suddenly said,”You know(not putting my name),you and(his name)should go out”And i’m like,NOOO!!!So I went back and played…Two years later,To this day,He’s started to…well…disappear….It started from not seeing me in days,then weeks,then three months….And also,when i was 11,I started to kinda have a crush on him..Idk it was just random..Like when i look at him I used to see friend,Now when i look at him,I see Insane Hotness…And he is..He has Abs..Lol…Yeaa he takes his shirt off sometimes in front of me….ANYWAY…….but,like a month ago,He got a Hickey..Mind you he’s JUST now turning 13(his B-day-Nov.19)And..It was from this girl named Tori…And she has a friend Named Alaina.Theyre like sisters!!!!!!!My god,everytime I see them,THERES TORI AND ALAINA!!!-_- I hate them.I swear.They are 2 grades ABOVE US!!!!!!And Adam got a Hickey from Tori.I am still mad…I mean..well…IDK !!!Im not exactly JEALOUS…Not like i want to give him a hickey and get my butt tore up like she did.But,For a while,I thought that he liked me..I mean when i was 11…we used to walk ALONE in the DARK,TOGETHER,CLOSE,To our grandfather’s pasture,Which is about a half mile away,But still on his land.and.We used to talk about school..and who we dating..and this and that..And..Umm…I really dont feel comfortable about telling you what we did..NOOOO!!!!!!ITS NOT SMEX(i dun like saying the actual word..lol makes me feel awkward)..OR MAKING OUT YOU NASTY MINDED PEOPLE!!Its like..Oh nevermind I’ll tell you anyway..Becuz i wanna know what’s going on with him.So one time not to long ago,I take his phone ALL the time,And i took it and this time, he tackles me to the ground.This time he pinned me down on the floor. No one was in the house and it was AWKWARD!Considering He was on top of me and alone and all…Anyways he sat on top of me for 30 minutes.I know.I counted -.-…He puckered up and leaned in PLAYFULLY!!!!Then he leaned back.Lol I head butted him before he his head got all the way up.Even though i kinda wanted to kiss him….Awkward again..o-o..So yea now he’s just COMPLETELY IGNORING ME D: and i don’t think i have done anything wrong …He’s been hanging out with Tori -_- And Alaina -_-…Maybe he’s just tired of me i guess…You know,Knowing me for 12 years…Suggestions on what’s going on with him??…And i mind you,He wanted ME to come over often,Not me just begging him to come over every other day/weekend -.-..So it was HIM persuading me to come see him at My grandfather’s house..Just..Making that clear…lol..Sorry this was so long..And i know i didn’t include some other important things but i thought it was long enough ..

By: Tammie

Tammie — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 17:54:34 +0000

So……..met a guy online, was going through a helluva time…..and we only chatted a couple times……turns out we have family in the same area……he knew this but I didn’t……we both have not dated for a while and are roughly the same age.and it took 5 months for us to meet in person……first night we went for coffee…..couple nights later we met up again, and this time through a set of circumstances I ended up with a t shirt of his while he was washing mine……..which he has now told me I can keep if I like, cuz he thought it looked pretty hot on me…….now he’s gone out of the area for a few weeks, left this morning, and we never saw each other the night before he left, but did see each other the night before that………….I’m just not too sure if he’s all that into me and now am starting to fall for him……………….help!

By: mystery

mystery — Sat, 10 Nov 2012 00:17:35 +0000

I think he’s crushing on u b/ if he is teasing u then it’s a sign of flirting.