How would you feel if your sweetie went to a strip club… without you? We can definitely understand how this situation would make some gURLs feel uncomfortable, but at the same time, it’s hard to tell your boyfriend/gURLfriend what he or she can and can’t do.
That’s exactly the problem a gURL on our boards is having. She’s getting a range of feedback on her situation from other gURLs on the boards and it got us thinking too.
Here’s the break down:
Okay sooo I’m currently in a long distance relationship, i haven’t seen my boyfriend in a year and a half(sigh)…hanging in there…but anyway we do fun things on our own to help the time pass by..like chill with friends…go to parties…the movies..the beach…STRIP CLUBS!!! lol okay i don’t go to strip clubs, but sometime he does..at first i was okay with it but now i feel a little weird/jealous…idk…so i wanna know how do you gurls feel about your boyfriend going to a strip club on more than one occasion? And if you were in a long distance relationship,would u feel the same way about it?
Hesmyweakness replied, saying:
I could care less if he went to a strip club. I told him he could go to one for his bachelor party if he wanted.
It doesnt matter who he is looking at as long as he comes home to me. I mean he loves me, he doesnt love them. I’m very secure in his love for me so, I know I have nothing to worry about.
While a_wolves_spirit had an opposite opinion:
I would not want my boyfriend going the strip club. I don’t really see why he’d desire that and if he could justify it, without injuring my feelings or bringing up our sex life, then I may be okay with it. But generally? No.
We can understand both points of view. And in the end, there is no universal right answer. It boils down to how you and your S.O. feel about it. If it’s against your morals and makes you totally uncomfortable, then tell your sweetie . If it doesn’t bother you, then hey — there’s nothing wrong with that either.
So WDYT, gURLs? Would you care if your S.O. went to a strip club? Would you ever go to one yourself? What advice would you give this gURL? Discuss in the comments.