Can You Be In Love With More Than One Person at the Same Time?

Can you really be in love with two people at once?

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  • Anonymous

    if you loved the first guy you would have fallen for the second, don’t be dumb .

  • Tia

    I believe that you cannot love two people at once. However, you can have feelings for two people at once. People confuse or infatuation for love way too often.

  • Fatima, Pakistan

    Unfortunately, yes. 🙁 It really complicates things. I’ve been in a relationship for nearly four years now, so I know after the first 2 years that feeling of being ‘blind’ to everyone else starts fading, especially if you and your SO are almost total opposites in terms of interests etc (which we are.)
    But one thing’s certain–you love one more than the other. It’s not necessarily the the second one. When you try to decide, remember the person you love more is the person your heart keeps coming [back] to.

    • Sarah A.

      Totally disagree, no offence. I was in love with the same guy for 5 years, and I didn’t look for anyone else. When you’re truly in love all you see is them, you may et lonely, and you may get mad at eachother,hell you can even fuck up when you’re angry, or lonely (once!!- not that I did) but to totally fall head over heels in love for another guy? No offence, but no, you’re not in love with either. Maybe love them, but not in love with them.

  • Rain

    yes we can… but it’s rare.

  • Sian

    No you cant be in love with 2 guys at the same time but you can like 2 guys at one time.
    Love is completely different from like or fancying. Just becaue you get butterflies around him or agree on one thing doesnt mean you are in love. It just means you have something in common. Love i when you cant live without someone and you argue but cant be mad with each other for more than 10 mins and you run back to each other. You know you are in love when the like your best friend and know what your thinking and how your feeling even if you dont tell them. Love is real and forever. Fancying is at that moment. 😉

    • Anne

      Exactly what I was going to say 🙂 Lots of people have messed-up definitions of ‘love’.

  • Hayley

    Probably i think but its really all up to the person deciding on the guy/s cause im not sure about love but i have had about 6 crushes at the one time.

  • Ashley

    No because if you were really in love with the first guy you wouldnt have given the second guy a second look 😉

    • Marie


    • saywatuneed2say

      Never thought of it that way! That’s really smart!