Pain During Sex

Nervousness. If you don’t relax your muscles, they can tighten up and close like the jaws of life. His penis will not be able to enter you, period — unless he forces himself in… which is NOT an effective solution, and will only make sex hurt a LOT more.


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  • Nikki

    The second time I ever had sex (with the man who is now my husband, but was my boyfriend at the time), he slipped out, but not all the way out. For a while afterwards, we couldn’t even have sex at all, as the pain of him even attempting to put his penis inside me was just too much. I found that putting a pillow under my lower back and butt and using some lube until my body was used to sex solved the problem. Occasionally I do still have some pain during sex, but that’s mostly from my lack of physical abilities.