The Complete Guide To Masturbation

Ellen!

Masturbation is something people do at any and every point in their lives — whether they’re single or in a relationship, old or young, male or female. What’s great about masturbation is that there is no right or wrong way to do it, you don’t need any supplies, and it is perfectly healthy and safe. This guide was written by Ellen Friedrichs, a sex education teacher, to help clear up some confusion surrounding masturbation, answer the most common questions people have and offer tips and advice on a subject that can be tough to talk about. Read on to learn more about masturbation, and hopefully, get some of your questions answered.


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381 Comments

  1. avatarLaura says:

    im only 14 but i dont know if its ok to pleasure my boyfriend he wants to pleasure me and i want to pleasure him its just the fact that i dont know if its ok i know i feel fine about it im just worried it might not be legal and he wants me to shave down there and ive got a really hairy area so i carnt exactly shave it staright away without snagging plz answer i really need to know thanks x

  2. avatargirlly says:

    i want to masterbate but im scared. i did it once and it made me feel really good and relaxed.. should i do it again? and what can you use instead of toys??

  3. avatarhehe says:

    plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help

    • avatarA help says:

      Was it alot of fluid? It is common for girls to get “wet” inside the vagina when turned on.
      Some girls “squirt” when they reach orgasm, which is basically bodily fluids, mostly consisting of thin urine, flying out of the vagina.

  4. avatarhehe says:

    hey um help i was masturbrating by putting my finger up my vigina hole and water went on my hand whats that and can you tell how to hump a pilliow and big stuffed toy ??? plz

  5. avatarhey says:

    OMG just then i stuck a lip gloss up my hole and it felt good .
    What do you guys do to masturbrate
    And last night i tried to hump my big teddy bear but tell me how do you make it fun to hump a stuffed toy please help ??????

    • avatarILOVEIT... says:

      I masterbate with my finger and i use a round marker. Also i have humped pillows and stuffed animals and i really dont know how to explain how to do it but it just feels really good!

  6. avatarrandomgirl says:

    Oh My Gosh I’m so glad this is here…I kinda felt really weird about it all because i guess nobody really talks about female masturbation much so…

  7. avatarShonteeLuvvsYouu says:

    The nails and ring on #7 is cayuuutee.

    But i do it with a barbie on the clit. just rubb the barbie vack and forth real quick.

  8. avatarweary says:

    didnt you know that .OMG LOTS OF GIRLS LOVE it

  9. avatarshae says:

    didnt think Girls that age did that :|

  10. avatarlala says:

    hey guys im just asking whats your fav thing to do for masturbrating

  11. avatarkkkkk says:

    i always felt guilty and like i was doing something wrong or i was a “freak” for doing it but now i don’t!..it’s so nice to know that i’m not the only one who does these things! this site made me feel much better about myself!

  12. avatarAlex says:

    one way to get an orgasm is to take a bath and put your vargina unger the runing bath tub fousit the vibrating of the watter falling allways works for me.

  13. avataralexa says:

    i started masturbating at 8 yeah very young but thats the way it was, many of my friends have found if they want to do it but cant use toys or dont watch porn that there electric tooth brush works, obviously not one they use in there mouth a clean one they brought especially and they can easily hide it from the parents

    • avatarAllie says:

      I started when i was 8 too! Hahah thank god i thought i was the only one who started that early.

  14. avatarlola says:

    hi what are some ways of masturbrating but no porn and toys and i dont no were my cehlts are and can u just say were they are plz help

  15. avatarfunky says:

    hey guys i love to touch myself but the thing is i cant watch porn or get toys so what could i do to have lol and i know the shower head one is there any others that u can do in the shower or so ur perants dont catch you doing it plzz help

    • avatarOlivia says:

      My favorite way is I will lean on my bathroomit counter or the edge of my couch with my pants off. If you press your vagina or cit really hard it feels perfect.

  16. avatarsecretwishes says:

    I started when I was 12. I’m almost 15 now. I used to always feel guilty after I did it but now I don’t. I lay on my back and rub my clit while I just think about stuff that excite me me. But I watch porn sometimes. I always have an orgasm.

    • avatarBrit says:

      Same here! I admit I’ve watched porn. Even though I’m 14, I don’t find anything wrong with it.

    • avatarscarlet says:

      I started wen i was about 10 or 9 years old and now im 17. I think there nothing wrong with it, only thing is tht i sometimes watch porn n get afraid of getting caught.

      • avatarsecretwishes says:

        I don’t worry about getting caught. As long as you do it when you’re alone or when you know that no one is gonna bother you, then you’re all good. Plus, it’s not like you can stop. A part of you wants to keep going, so you do.

      • avatarlili says:

        same here but i am only 10

  17. avatarlola says:

    hey guys help me i dont no were my chilts are plzz tell me

    • avatarSenna says:

      Right where your libra meet in the front it’s protected by the “hub” just feel around there a bit I think everyone’s size is different so you might have an easy or hard time finding it. Good luck!

  18. avatarMini says:

    So, this is off topic…but I don’t know if my area looks normal..
    I’ve got longish “lips” and they’re kind of purple and curl up, like wrinkle? I’m just really..insecure about it… And it’s not like blue waffle or whatever they call it, it’s just hard to explain.. :(

    • avatarWendy says:

      dont feel insecure about it . . everyones body are different. i would just advise to spend some alone time to accept and get comfortable with your own. be confident in you body even if you have flaws.

    • avatarAshanti says:

      Are You A Virgin ?

  19. avatara secret says:

    i am only 14 and i am a virgin and i don’t want lose my vergenality i have stoped masturbating from a long time i never fingered so befor i had my peored i went to the bethrome i have peed and Bled like i told u i have never fingered so what is it should i be woried plaeeeeeees help

    • avatarpaul says:

      You did that wrong.

    • avatarSam says:

      If you have long fingernails, you might have scratched yourself. Or it could just have happened. Maybe you shouldn’t go so deep- but then again I’m not well educated in this type of thing.

    • avatarGenn says:

      The peeing is an orgasm, the bleeding means you probably broke your flap(witch is supposed to happen)

    • avatarAisling says:

      Wait, did you start bleeding after you masturbated, or did you just have blood in your pee? If you just had blood in your pee, then it’s probably a urinary tract infection.

  20. avatarHERBIEGIRL says:

    is it ok to let the show run onto ur vigina and what are ur cuilts and where are they im 13 and dont know plz help me and can u tell me different ways of doing mbrate plzz x

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