The Complete Guide To Masturbation

Ellen!

Masturbation is something people do at any and every point in their lives — whether they’re single or in a relationship, old or young, male or female. What’s great about masturbation is that there is no right or wrong way to do it, you don’t need any supplies, and it is perfectly healthy and safe. This guide was written by Ellen Friedrichs, a sex education teacher, to help clear up some confusion surrounding masturbation, answer the most common questions people have and offer tips and advice on a subject that can be tough to talk about. Read on to learn more about masturbation, and hopefully, get some of your questions answered.


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381 Comments

  1. avatarMiggy says:

    K so i haven’t had my period yet and my friends say I’m really lucky so i don’t want it sooner… will like masterbating speed it up?

  2. avatarjk says:

    hey um wen u get an orgasim dose it hurt before u get it like dose it feel like u want to stop

  3. avatarZesha says:

    I masturbate but once I’ve reached an orgasm, it’ll hurt slightly down there and I feel guilty doing it for no reason…but it feels so good..

  4. avatarLala says:

    Havent masturbated EVER and idk if i want to idk if its normal?…

    • avatarpenny says:

      yeah its totally normal! i havent ever but lots of girls do. its normal if u do and its normal if u dont. some people dont like to but many love it!

  5. avatarLala says:

    Havent maturbated EVER and idk if i want to…

  6. avatarbeauty_girl says:

    i dont know im afraid to do this
    im only 13 years old

  7. avatarTayla says:

    Omg it feels so good! I only started today and can’t wait to do it again. I am surprised that 9 and 10 year olds masturbate though…

    • avatarAriana says:

      haha… right! 9 and 10 year olds? what do you watch on tv!?!? I am about to turn 16.. and i just tried it with my sister when i was 13. 10? nah… i didnt even know how to kiss at 10. let alone 9. ew.

  8. avatarclaire says:

    Hi, so i have a couple questions. any answer i appreciate.

    1)what vagina penetration? and how is it used in masterbation and how is it used with a guy?

    2) i dont know what turns me on. ive tried fantasizing about many different things and people that im attracted to me but getting turned on is almost hard. any advice?

  9. avatarLisa says:

    I masturbate a LOT. Every day (almost). I rub my vjj against a chair edge. The problem is, that my mom got her period when she was 11 and i am already 12 and still havent got my period. Could this be because i masturbate??? Help!!!! I do have discharge though.
    Thank you in advance!!

    • avatarcory says:

      you will get your period, It may just take longer, you really should go to your mom for help thou, don rely on some msg board. At any rate I’m sure you’ll be fine, and I’m positive that masturbating wouldn’t harm.

    • avatarpenny says:

      your period will come… it may not come at the same time your moms did, and 12 is still a fine age to not have your period yet so dont worry… some girls dont get it till theyre 15

  10. avatarjosie says:

    Omg i say to girls who want to masturbate, go for it! It is soo darn good when you get an orgasm!!!

  11. avatarD_Styles says:

    So…I’m scared to masterbate. Like I hump toys and stuff but I’m too scared to stick my finger ‘in there’ and I’m 14, I’ve been doing this since I was 10! I need help, for some reason I’m scared! What should I do?

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