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Even More FAQ’s Q: Why do some women use vibrating things to reach orgasm? Do men use vibration? Why does vibration feel good to some people? A: A lot of women and some men find the sensation of vibration very pleasurable. Many women like vibration on the clitoris, but vibration can feel good in the vagina or anus, on the nipples and on the perineum or penis. The clitoris and the head of the penis have hundreds of nerve endings in them so stimulating of these areas with vibration can help a person orgasm. In fact, many women first have an orgasm by using vibration. Q: Is it okay to masturbate with a faucet or shower head in the bathtub? Is it dangerous to put water inside you? A: This is perfectly healthy, safe and very common. Masturbating with a shower head or faucet will not damage a gURL’s internal or external organs, and it can be an enjoyable way to explore one’s body. gURLs should keep in mind, however, that it isn’t a good idea to force a lot of water into the vagina or anus. Some people think that it is important to clean the vagina out by douching, but this is actually unnecessary. The vagina cleans itself (that’s part of the function of discharge), so putting additional water into the vagina can actually strip it of healthy bacteria and make an infection more likely. Q: Is it safe to masturbate when I have my period? A: It is perfectly safe to masturbate when a gURL has her period and having an orgasm can actually help relieve menstrual cramps. Some gURLs choose to masturbate in the bath or shower when they have their periods to avoid having to deal with clean up, but that is purely a matter of personal choice. If a gURL is wearing a tampon, she should make sure to take it out before inserting anything else. Q: I can’t make myself have an orgasm when I masturbate, what’s wrong? A: This is a very common concern for gURLs. Most women experience orgasm through clitoral stimulation and not through vaginal penetration. The clitoris is a gland jam-packed with nerve endings. It is located at the top of a woman’s vulva, between her inner labia and looks a little like the tip of a finger or nose. If a woman is finding it hard to reach orgasm, she can try clitoral stimulation during, before, or after vaginal penetration. Many people decide to devote a certain amount of time (for example an hour every few days for a few weeks) to learning how to have an orgasm. It is a good idea to find a time when you can have some privacy (and won’t be bothered) to practice. A lot of women also find it easier to reach orgasm if they fantasize about something that turns them on while masturbating.
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K so i haven’t had my period yet and my friends say I’m really lucky so i don’t want it sooner… will like masterbating speed it up?
hey um wen u get an orgasim dose it hurt before u get it like dose it feel like u want to stop
I masturbate but once I’ve reached an orgasm, it’ll hurt slightly down there and I feel guilty doing it for no reason…but it feels so good..
Thats how i feel
Havent masturbated EVER and idk if i want to idk if its normal?…
yeah its totally normal! i havent ever but lots of girls do. its normal if u do and its normal if u dont. some people dont like to but many love it!
Havent maturbated EVER and idk if i want to…
i dont know im afraid to do this
im only 13 years old
That’s how I feel exactly!
Omg it feels so good! I only started today and can’t wait to do it again. I am surprised that 9 and 10 year olds masturbate though…
haha… right! 9 and 10 year olds? what do you watch on tv!?!? I am about to turn 16.. and i just tried it with my sister when i was 13. 10? nah… i didnt even know how to kiss at 10. let alone 9. ew.
Hi, so i have a couple questions. any answer i appreciate.
1)what vagina penetration? and how is it used in masterbation and how is it used with a guy?
2) i dont know what turns me on. ive tried fantasizing about many different things and people that im attracted to me but getting turned on is almost hard. any advice?
just keep trying i guess…maybe like looking at pictures or reading stuff ?
I masturbate a LOT. Every day (almost). I rub my vjj against a chair edge. The problem is, that my mom got her period when she was 11 and i am already 12 and still havent got my period. Could this be because i masturbate??? Help!!!! I do have discharge though.
Thank you in advance!!
you will get your period, It may just take longer, you really should go to your mom for help thou, don rely on some msg board. At any rate I’m sure you’ll be fine, and I’m positive that masturbating wouldn’t harm.
your period will come… it may not come at the same time your moms did, and 12 is still a fine age to not have your period yet so dont worry… some girls dont get it till theyre 15
Omg i say to girls who want to masturbate, go for it! It is soo darn good when you get an orgasm!!!
So…I’m scared to masterbate. Like I hump toys and stuff but I’m too scared to stick my finger ‘in there’ and I’m 14, I’ve been doing this since I was 10! I need help, for some reason I’m scared! What should I do?