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would you really wanna pee on him?
Hi Heather,
My boyfriend wanted to have sex and he said could he pee in me afterward to kill the sperm so I wouldn’t get pregnant but I don’t think that’s safe is it??? And what would that do to me???
Sperm, the wonderfully gooey spunk that comes out of a guys penis upon ejaculation, can live in your warm, moist vagina for up to five days. While sperm is sensitive to acidic things, like urine, once his sperm is inside you, there really is no safe way to flush it out. Not even if you urinate as well. Urine is NOT spermicide.
Furthermore, urinating inside you opens you up to serious infection. His urine includes his waste products that could seriously disrupt the happy balance of your vagina, leaving you prone to yeast infections, UTIs and worse, a kidney infection. Bacteria in his pee can swim up to your kidney’s and attack them. It’s painful and it comes on quick.
And finally, I have to address the most serious and scary part of your question: that you’re NOT using a condom. Is there a reason that he’s not putting one on and wants to deceive you into thinking that urination is a form of birth control? You are not only opening yourself up to pregnancy (which you seemed to be concerned about), it also opens you up to serious STI’s. If he is unwilling to use a condom, please abstain from sex with him — only a guy who really cares about you and your life is worth taking that risk for. His lack of concern greatly concerns me and I hope it does you, too.
Hey gURLs, how do you get a guy to put on a condom? I’d love to hear your ideas.
take care,
heather
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i am agreeing with the ladies no glove no love its simply as that guys a child is a handful i am 24 and have a 2 year old i was stupid
You girls are idiots 98 percent of the time
It’s the girl that won’t let me put a condom
On, they always say their allergic to latex
And it feels way better without one. The
Other 2 percent is from not haveing on at
The present time.
Stop blaming the guy you don’t know shit.
Easy. No condom? No sex. Stick to your guns and tell him that theres only one way to
Tell him if he doesn’t, no sex!!!!
Oddly enough I had the desire to be urinated in, so I talked to my gynecologist about this and he informed me that it is safe to do as urine is sterile. It is NOT an effective spermicide though. I urge anyone who is curious about this to give it a try at least once. I have been doing it with my bf since I was 15
make it flow so it can grow big and strong!
My husband and I have been married for about 5 years now and when we were dating and the beginning of our marriage I told him safe sex or no sex. I had to be very religious about this and I didn’t remind him sometimes he would forget. When we were ready tohave kids. Low and behold we got pregnant right away. Ladies, if he loves you and wants intimate sex with you, he’ll put one on.
gURL –
I am a big fan of the service you provide for teen girls, but you really should hire a medical professional if you are going to answer medical questions.
No, urine is NOT effective as spermicide. It is true that sperm are very sensitive to acidity, and urine would likely kill some of the sperm present in your vagina after intercourse, but it is very unlikely that it would kill all of it. Urine is also not able to protect you against AIDS or other STIs, so you should always use a condom.
That said, getting urine into your vagina is not likely to make you sick. Unless your boyfriend has a UTI himself, his urine is sterile and is very unlikely to do you any damage.
After reading all these comments I couldn’t believe how stupid they all sound. Yes pee will kill sperm. Not all of it though so you should still use condoms, but urine is 100 precent sterile. Your cannot get an infection from it! Bladder and kidney infections are caused by E coli, a bacteria found in your colon. Not your bladder. I have kidney disease and have been to many nephrologist who all say the same thing. Pee is sterile, you could even drink it if you really chose too.
This is right, but girls, please don’t use his pee as a method of birth control!
I do 100% agree with you. i have experienced to release my pee in so many girls. and nobody ever complained of any infection. there are also articles about Healing Power Of Urines and you can search through Google. It is awsom.
I AM A NURSE…… URINE CAN CAUSE MAJOR VAGINAL INFECTIONS!!!!! BV, UTI, KIDNEY, OR EVEN PID…… PID CAN CAUSE YOU TO NEVER REPRODUCE….. SO LISTEN TO ME!!!!!! I SEE THIS EVERY DAY!!!!!!!! DO NOT LET A GUY PEE IN YOUR VIGINA!!!!!!!!!!!!! BIRTH CONTOL OR CONDOMS IS THE BEST METHOD OF PEGNANCY PREVENTION…….. YOU CAN LISTEN TO THE OTHERS THAT SAY IT IS OKAY IF YOUR WANT TO I MAY SEE YOU AT MY JOB….. THE LOCAL ER……. BE SMART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nurse Debbie. Despite your shouting capitals you are completely misinformed.
Urinating inside the vagina cannot cause any of the medical problems you indicated. Urine is, as has been said by others, sterile. In a monogamous relationship if both partners are disease free and check regularly there should be no need for condoms either if other forms of birth control are used.
I hope this clears up a few misconceptions.
If you’re on birth control you can have unprotected sex, it’s not a big deal. I don’t think your partner should urinate inside of you though!
I am going to say no because that is gross and plus i think it can prolly lead to a really bad infection
no its not safe its dangerous tell him no no no
That’s disgusting! I would never allow anyone to pee in me, not just because it’s stupid but it’s obviously dumb!
I simply say condoms are cheaper than babies. I usually carry a few condoms with me, but its my boyfriends job to always have a few on him. He knows no glove no love.
um, that is nt right use a condom be safe and aparently he doesnt care about you or ur health so dont waste ur time on him like niki manaj and rihanna say plenty more fish in the sea and another guy will possibly be better and be smarter in the safe sex depart.
um, that is nt right use a condom be safe
well i would ask him to use one if he doesnt comply. then oh well no nookie tonight. my boyfriend used to tell me i dont like using condoms because i cant feel anything, or his penis was too big. i was immature enough and gave in. not knowing that he was immature enough not to pull out. i wound up pregnant with my first child now. i am 19. and all i have to say is safe sex is the best sex.please dont do it any other way. you can wound up pregnant with std’s or worse AIDS. and bad thing a bout it is your guy friend will never tell you.
that is completely stupid. goes to show you how much guys really use their brains,
it just goes to show how stupid and clueless woman are that this is even a question. He has a weird fetish and his girlfriend is an idiot so he uses her like trash and uses stupid lies that she believes.
theses guys are crazy. condoms are way too expensive these days
pee is free and plentiful. I say try it out and let us know how it goes
Ummm you can get free condoms at Planned Parenthood, and thats just a pretty ridiculous stament. You obviously don’t care about her health or well being (and probably yours). Tell the guy to put on a damn condom, that simple.
OMG! this guy sounds like a total creepy slime ball!, if a guy said that to me I'd sock him one in the eye! plus if he gave you a kidney infection it could be really dangerous. I found this statement on a medical clinic's website!!! "If not treated properly, a kidney infection can permanently damage your kidneys or spread to your bloodstream and cause a life-threatening infection. " YOU COULD DIE!!!! so my advice is SWAP YOUR GUY! suggesting that kind of stupidity means he could care less about you , and your health! and I guarentee you that you can do WAAY better! And I am really glad that you came here and asked about it first that was really smart of you!
if you had blindly done as he wanted you to it could have ruined your life!! so I am REALLY REALLY GLAD you came here first 
YOU GO GIRL AT LEAST YOU KNOW NASTY WHEN YOU HEAR IT OR SEE IT…… I WOULD PUNCH HIM TO!!!!!!!!! YOU MIGHT AS WELL LET HIM R KELLY YOU IF YOU LET HIM PEE INSIDE YOU…. NOT MUCH OF A DIFFERENCE……….. GROSS!!!!!!!
Ewwww. Do not let him do that. Like Heather said, its going to screw up your body. If you want to have sex, be safe. Remember no glove, no love.