Reader Hookup Confession: I Let the Boy Next Door Watch Me Masturbate. Am I a Whore?

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Sometimes, hooking up with yourself is more fun than anything else! Taylor Momsen knows what we mean. But what happens when you get caught in the heat of your “alone time” by…your crush?!? Read on….

Today I did something, and I am concerned for what people will think of me if they were to find out.

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So there is this guy that lives in the house beside me, I really like him because he is cute and really nice, and his bedroom window is right next to mine. And today, when my parents and siblings were gone, I went into my room and I masturbated. And after like a minute, I just opened my eye and I saw him peaking through his blinds…and he was looking at me, and when I saw him, I stopped for a second, but then I kept going. And I kinda liked the fact he was watching me.

After, he started talking to me on Facebook and he invited me over on the weekend,  but I don’t know what to do. Does this whole thing make me a ‘whore’? Was that wrong?

So gURLs, help this gURL out! Does letting the boy next door watch her touch herself make her a whore? Or was she safely just having a little fun? Tell us in the comments below!

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  • Liz

    That is not whoreish. Forget them bitches that say you are. Live your own live. It was just innocent fun.

  • gebiie

    I think he just wants to bang

  • lisa

    i think its kinda sexy ^^

  • Dgirl

    if you slept with a whole lot of guys,your a whore.you just like attention.( the person who’s name is … your a bitch.Why can’t you say your name?)

  • jenny

    I met this guy on line and I let him watch me masturbate. He used to get me to use all kinds of things.
    He used to masturbate with me.
    It worked out well because we finally met up for real and he turned out to be an awesome guy. We have a lot of sex now.

  • Angela

    No, i don’t think it makes you a whore. BUT, i don’t think that letting a boy you don’t know WATCH you sexually pleasure yourself is very appropriate or.. Safe. By letting him do this, i think you might be giving him the wrong idea. And i HIGHLY advise you not to go over to his home. He might possibly take advantage of you, or worse. Be careful, and try to do private things, IN PRIVATE.

    • not ashamed

      I agree with Angela.

      What if there was a guy who exposed himself and masturbated knowing you were watching?

      Would you call him a perv?

      How is that any different to what you did?

      I am not saying that what you did was wrong or right but I guess if we do such things then we must accept when guys do the same. But a guy is automatically judged and called a perv if he were to do something like that.

      I am just being a devil’s advocate ! Provoking thought!

  • Kate

    Women have long been called things like a slut, skank and whore, but if men exhibit the same type of behaviour, nothing happens to them. In fact, they are usually congratulated for it.

    I definitely don’t think you’re a whore. Heck, if the guy next door to me wanted to watch, I’d let him!

  • deesleezy505

    i think you are the best thing since sliced bread…. if there were more females like you, the world would be less sexually deprived!…. all u jealous jerks are just hating….
    also I am the creep that’s watching, people know I watch yet they have never shown interest in me, they only make me feel like a perverted freak,
    jus because I am anti social and I could never get anyone to like me does that mean people have to treat me like trash?
    maybe they should maybe I am just a creep…. either way I don’t care I love busting nuts to the sexy lady and her oldest daughter that live across the street… I jus hope they wear something sexy this summer and bend over a lot…. on the flip side they probably feel like prisoners in they’re own home because some freak is watching them…… hmmmm makes me wonder

  • tammy

    I dont think it is wrong. Just one question though. What if it was a guy masturbating and exposing himself to you?? Would you have double standards and call him a perv? I think if we do that then we ought to accept if the same happens to us. I think as a society we are all hypocrites. No judgement here. I just want you to reflect and accept that this can happen with anyone. I know if a guy had done exactly the same, the cops and the law would have come down on him heavily. Our society is stupid with false morals. Sex and anything to do with sex, as long as no one is harmed, is natural and normal and should be treated that way. Go for it.

  • mia

    i think you should do it again

  • Aisling

    I don’t think you’re a whore. Masturbating is completely normal, and being watched is more often a turn-on than anything else, especially if you’re interested in the person in question.
    The question is: does he know that you discovered him peeping at you? Because if he did he’ll probably try to make a pass at you, so be wary. I’m not saying that you should distrust him immediatly, but you should be aware that he’ll see you in a much more sexual way. I still think you should go and hang out with him, though – he’s interested in you and if you like him, go for it! Good luck 🙂

  • bob

    mb is great fun i do myself almost every day it adds to the fun if someone watches
    my wife caught me doing myself for one of her friends and now she is a masterbation fan
    she likes to play dominatrix and has joined a domination club where she takes me naked to masterbate. i really like the exposure and the orgasms are fantastic

  • Meachy

    Of course you not a whore, when you think whore, think prostitute, and you didnt know he was watching at first, you didnt show off or anything, i think if he was secretly watching he probably liked watching you

    • rob

      I dont think there is a problem with what you did . I have masterbated and have later found out i was watched .That only made me want to do it again

  • lovebecs

    No that does not make you a whore u were alone and he just happend to see you but yah totally go over on the weekend he’s probably totally into you especially now that he saw you well you no

  • gina

    i find what you did completely wrong and embarassing! not the masturbation part because everyone does it once in a while but the fact that you let a random guy see something so personal..no i just don’t get it..plus i woulnd’t be happy if he talked to me after that day…he probably considers that with you is easy to have sex..i know i’m harsh but you need to underdstand what’s the right thing to do and what that boy really wants.gd luck!

  • SKANK.

    • Kathy

      your a bitch

      • Kathy

        and no you are not a whore

  • anonomous male

    No! a whore is a person who engages in sexual acts for money. NOT “someone who promiscuously sleeps around with guys.”

    Words like “whore” and “slut” are demeaning to women and perpetuate a long-standing double standard pertaining to men’s and women’s appropriate sexual behavior.

    Who is anyone else to dictate how you should and should not exercise your sexuality?
    Who is anyone else to say what you are doing is wrong if you aren’t hurting yourself or anyone else?

    Also, the guy will not necessarily only want sex from you. We have feelings too.

  • lilsmurffette82

    no that does not make u a whore….masturbation is normal for everyone and we all do it once in awhile so now there is nothing wrong with it and when u seen that someone was watching u that u had a crush u were just have fun and exploreing with a person u have a crush with and that is perfectly normal and there is nothing wrong with it if he likes u too in the same way

  • Dest

    I just don’t think you guys could get serious, after that, sex is all he wants when he’s with you

  • SammieBammie

    no!
    a whore is someone who promiscuously sleeps around with guys – from what you said, it doesn’t sound like you are one! 🙂 you’re just having fun and exploring with a crush…perfectly normal.