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Sometimes, hooking up with yourself is more fun than anything else! Taylor Momsen knows what we mean. But what happens when you get caught in the heat of your “alone time” by…your crush?!? Read on….
Today I did something, and I am concerned for what people will think of me if they were to find out.
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So there is this guy that lives in the house beside me, I really like him because he is cute and really nice, and his bedroom window is right next to mine. And today, when my parents and siblings were gone, I went into my room and I masturbated. And after like a minute, I just opened my eye and I saw him peaking through his blinds…and he was looking at me, and when I saw him, I stopped for a second, but then I kept going. And I kinda liked the fact he was watching me.
After, he started talking to me on Facebook and he invited me over on the weekend, but I don’t know what to do. Does this whole thing make me a ‘whore’? Was that wrong?
So gURLs, help this gURL out! Does letting the boy next door watch her touch herself make her a whore? Or was she safely just having a little fun? Tell us in the comments below!
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i think you should do it again
I don’t think you’re a whore. Masturbating is completely normal, and being watched is more often a turn-on than anything else, especially if you’re interested in the person in question.
The question is: does he know that you discovered him peeping at you? Because if he did he’ll probably try to make a pass at you, so be wary. I’m not saying that you should distrust him immediatly, but you should be aware that he’ll see you in a much more sexual way. I still think you should go and hang out with him, though – he’s interested in you and if you like him, go for it! Good luck
mb is great fun i do myself almost every day it adds to the fun if someone watches
my wife caught me doing myself for one of her friends and now she is a masterbation fan
she likes to play dominatrix and has joined a domination club where she takes me naked to masterbate. i really like the exposure and the orgasms are fantastic
Of course you not a whore, when you think whore, think prostitute, and you didnt know he was watching at first, you didnt show off or anything, i think if he was secretly watching he probably liked watching you
I dont think there is a problem with what you did . I have masterbated and have later found out i was watched .That only made me want to do it again
No that does not make you a whore u were alone and he just happend to see you but yah totally go over on the weekend he’s probably totally into you especially now that he saw you well you no
i find what you did completely wrong and embarassing! not the masturbation part because everyone does it once in a while but the fact that you let a random guy see something so personal..no i just don’t get it..plus i woulnd’t be happy if he talked to me after that day…he probably considers that with you is easy to have sex..i know i’m harsh but you need to underdstand what’s the right thing to do and what that boy really wants.gd luck!
SKANK.
your a bitch
and no you are not a whore
No! a whore is a person who engages in sexual acts for money. NOT “someone who promiscuously sleeps around with guys.”
Words like “whore” and “slut” are demeaning to women and perpetuate a long-standing double standard pertaining to men’s and women’s appropriate sexual behavior.
Who is anyone else to dictate how you should and should not exercise your sexuality?
Who is anyone else to say what you are doing is wrong if you aren’t hurting yourself or anyone else?
Also, the guy will not necessarily only want sex from you. We have feelings too.
no that does not make u a whore….masturbation is normal for everyone and we all do it once in awhile so now there is nothing wrong with it and when u seen that someone was watching u that u had a crush u were just have fun and exploreing with a person u have a crush with and that is perfectly normal and there is nothing wrong with it if he likes u too in the same way
I just don’t think you guys could get serious, after that, sex is all he wants when he’s with you
no!
you’re just having fun and exploring with a crush…perfectly normal.
a whore is someone who promiscuously sleeps around with guys – from what you said, it doesn’t sound like you are one!