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Henry here answering your guy questions. Today, O.M.T. writes: “I am currently in a long-distance relationship. I love my boyfriend but our conversations are getting dull. What are some interesting ways to spice things up?”
Well, besides the obvious…. :clears throat:
First thing’s first: There’s something really special for a guy about seeing a girl’s face, their laugh, their smile, and the way their hair tosses around. Those are the little things that remind us why we like a girl so much, so part of keeping things fresh is having that constant reminder. If you’re just doing phone calls all the time, the conversation is going to get dull because most guys hate being on the phone in the first place. In this case, it might be best to get yourself Skype or FaceTime or any other means of video chatting.
Otherwise, you can try spicing things up with these conversation starters:
1. Think up some sexy questions for your guy (It’s sure to get him talking!)…but make sure you’d be willing to answer the same questions you ask him. So, for example:
-”What’s the most ticklish spot on your body?”
-”Do you prefer a circular French kiss or a tongue thrust?”
-”What does an erection feel like for you?”
|Or, if you’re too embarrassed to ask that last one, you can find out here!|
And believe it or not, guys think about girls a LOT after we get off the phone, so sending him a follow-up text with an insider-y joke from your last conversation will keep you fresh in his mind. Just don’t go overboard on the texts. One or two between each phone convo is definitely sufficient.
So, do you have a question only a guy can answer? Post a comment and you may see yours answered in a future post.
Later,
Henry
I have a bf that wants to do more than wht were doin but im scared wht do i say to him? I love him but I dnt no how to tell him whts on my mind
I’m in a long-distance relationship as well. Tj and I both have skype and cam so when we talk most of the time, it’s over cam and mic, and last night was the last night we were going to get to talk before he went to the field (He is military) and I had to do something (I dont remember what) and just the way I moved when I got back into my spot he said “I love your hair, and your face, you are so beautiful” and of course I smiled and blushed but when he and I don’t cam and we just mic he usually says “Get on your computer when you can, I wanna see you” at least once. I didn’t know the thing about how guys like to see our laughs and smiles though, so it makes more sense now. This is not a question, just kind of an add on story I guess.
i love my boyfriend but he is a little bit to controling for example his telling me what to wear. and plus he made me give him every password to all my social site is dat a good sign
YES! he cant control everything like the things you wear and whatev else and if he wants your passwords you should get his also . so it can be fair and so that you kno he aint hiding anything either
when my boyfriend and i have sex we want to be safe and use condoms, but we just dont like how they feel! is there are certain brand that feels better than others?
You should definitely use Trojan Ecstasy. They work just as good as any other condom and feel amazingly like it’s not there. (believe me I was stupid enough to have sex without a condom and use the pull and pray method….some how I was lucky enough that the “pray” part worked. please stay safe) There is also female condoms and you can use Diaphragms. it might help.