Henry here answering your guy questions. Today, O.M.T. writes: “I am currently in a long-distance relationship. I love my boyfriend but our conversations are getting dull. What are some interesting ways to spice things up?”
Well, besides the obvious…. :clears throat:
First thing’s first: There’s something really special for a guy about seeing a girl’s face, their laugh, their smile, and the way their hair tosses around. Those are the little things that remind us why we like a girl so much, so part of keeping things fresh is having that constant reminder. If you’re just doing phone calls all the time, the conversation is going to get dull because most guys hate being on the phone in the first place. In this case, it might be best to get yourself Skype or FaceTime or any other means of video chatting.
Otherwise, you can try spicing things up with these conversation starters:
1. Think up some sexy questions for your guy (It’s sure to get him talking!)…but make sure you’d be willing to answer the same questions you ask him. So, for example:
-”What’s the most ticklish spot on your body?”
-”Do you prefer a circular French kiss or a tongue thrust?”
-”What does an erection feel like for you?”
And believe it or not, guys think about girls a LOT after we get off the phone, so sending him a follow-up text with an insider-y joke from your last conversation will keep you fresh in his mind. Just don’t go overboard on the texts. One or two between each phone convo is definitely sufficient.
So, do you have a question only a guy can answer? Post a comment and you may see yours answered in a future post.