advice gURL: am i suffering from depression?

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thiswillbeinterestin is worried she may be suffering from depression. Read her post and let her know your opinion.

She writes:

I do not know what to do! Ever since December of 2009, I have not felt like myself. I do not know why and I need help. I have tried to hint to people that I might be depressed, but I don’t want to talk. I can’t talk to my parents because they think I’m perfect. They want me to be just like my one brother, but not the other. Well look where my “good” brother is heading! The SAME place as my other brother! I don’t know what to do. I have been feeling depressed. In the past year my heart has been broken 9 times and 3 times by the same guy. I have no clue what to do and I need help but I’m too afraid to talk.

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I can’t keep hinting to people that something might be wrong. Even if I had something that I needed medication for, I wouldn’t be able to get it. My parents aren’t doing too good with the whole money thing and we have been barely able to pay important bills. We have a horrible insurance that pays for crap. I need help and I can’t talk to anyone! I’m scared and I have cried so many more times in the last 2 months than in my life! Please help!!

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  • Daniella

    Okay calm down hun…

    You do seem a little depressed but you have no idea what the problem might be?

    I think its exactly what you have said here.

    the whole money issue your parents are having and the boyfriend crisis is my first guess.

    i want to give my opinion on each topic so first of all let me talk about the money issue.

    my mom is going through the same thing and it pains me to watch her struggle. i always try my best to help her out when she needs it. i think the best thing you can do to help out is maybe get a part time job ( if you're old enough) and give them a little bit of money. even if its like 5 bucks, you'll probably think to yourself "how is this gonna help" but it will most likely mean the world to them 🙂

    Now the ex-boyfriends issue. you dont even know how maby times i have heard this one! 😛

    all i can say to that is…… F**K THEM!

    Sorry for the language but guys piss me off sometimes. 😛

    this is one of the toughest things to get gurls to understand, unfortunitly.

    just remember that most guys will tell you anything they know you want to here. and usuaally its a whole load of bulllshit!

    No matter how sure you are about a guy, never ever let your guard down because you never know how fast someone can just turn around on you 🙁

    You may thinks its love but.. sadly most times ist just your mind playing tricks on you.

    wwhat does true love actually feel like, and how do you know when its reaally real?

    i couldnt give you 100% correct answer to that but, something tells me that it feels like when you spin around really fast, and your heart starts pumping, the whole world turns upside down. you cant think straight 🙂 its a thrill ! <3

    and personally i think its really real when that guy likes you for who you are, doesnt control you, doesnt care if he sees you without your makeup on…… cant stand to not be by your side 🙂 <3

    listen gurll, life is tough no doubt about that but you gotta keep living it to the fullest and you cant give up now.

    you have friends and a family that loves you.. and THAT is real love 😀 and remember there are hundreds of gurls sharing your problem and you always have us here on gURL.com to help you out whenever you need it 🙂

    hope this helped 🙂

    just keep on living life to the fullest

    and cheer up it'll be a blast ;D

    <3<3<3 XOXOXO

    -Daniella.