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Hey gURLs, Henry’s back all weekend long to answer more of your questions just for guys.
Today, iluvyou12 asks: “How can you tell if a guy likes you? All of my friends have dated at least 2-3 guys, but I haven’t dated any. I’m 12 years old and I think that I’m ready to be in a relationship, but the thing is, my crush only talks to me if he’s joking.”
You kinda answered your own question! If a guy only talks to you when he’s joking, chances are he does like you. Guys may seem like they don’t have emotions, but the reality is, they’re just better at hiding them. And when it comes to hiding your emotions, joking around or being a goofball is always the easiest way, especially if it’s at another’s expense.
Sure – you can’t assume every guy who makes a joke your way is in love with you, but pay extra special attention to the guys who are always going out of their way to make you laugh. Other ways to know: “the gaze” (direct eye contact guys can’t avoid when we’re into a girl), goofy smiles for prolonged periods of time (also unavoidable), and fixing his hair or clothing when he’s around you (but gay guys do this too…so that could get confusing if it’s your only telltale sign).
And if you’re still not sure, you can always do what my 5th grade crush did to me: Push a guy against a locker and blurt out “I like you. I want to kiss you right now.”
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Sometimes taking control of the situation is better than not knowing at all. And just think, even if he’s not into you, at least you know and can move on to the next guy.
And another note: At 12, you may feel like you’re ready to be in a relationship right now, but you have plenty of time to meet guys, have a crush, get crushed on, get rejected, reject, date, dump, make out and…”poke.”
That’s all for now. Have q’s only a guy can answer? Post a comment and you may see yours answered in my next post!
Deuces,
Henry
Can You Trust Him?
So there’s this guy named Michal. He is my crush. So for the musical I had to wear a dress and makeup for a seen.He was in the musical too. When he saw me he started staring at me.like head to toe stare ing at me. And then he went up to me and said (Eaxct words said!)
M: wow u should wear that dress every day
Me: well I will hav to for tommorows proformence-
M: I meant to school
Me: Y?
M: I don’t know (shrugs) u look like a princess.
Me: um thank you
Then later in other classes I hav with him I can catch him stare ing at me. Does he like me? But even if he does my friend likes him and is going to ask him out and so he is off limits and my friend will get mad @ me. But she doesn’t know I like him.
help!
BTW I’m in middle school 6th grade
I like a girl in my class and she likes me, but what do I do now? I’m only in fifth grade and I know were young. Students and even teachers talk about how cute we look together.
Okay, so my best friend, let’s call her “Kayla”, has a best guy friend, let’s call him “David”. At track meets, we all hang out. So between him and I, to me it feels like we have a connection. I don’t know if it’s mutual or what, but it’s definitely there for me. But Kayla and David have a special bond too, but it’s like 75 to 100 percent just-friends. She denies that she likes him, but I think she does at least a little bit. I’m not quite sure what to do, considering I like him. Any advice?