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Hey gURLs,Henry here again to answer more of your readers questions directed at guys. Let’s jump to it.
maddy asks: “is being kind of flat a HUUUGE turn-off? because I’m confident and nice and fairly pretty and yet no guys like me…”
Hey maddy—let’s get one thing straight. When it comes to guys, there is no universal type of a girl that we’re all attracted to. Just like some guys like blondes, while others go for brunettes, not every dude out there goes for the girl with the huge jugs. Trust me.
On top of that, small breasts aren’t a deal breaker by any means. Personally, I’d go for the girl with a small chest and a great attitude than a chick with a double D bra size but not much upstairs.
Most important—and I hate to sound all Dr. Phil on you—do you want a guy to like you for your breast size? Don’t get hung up on what you don’t have, and concentrate on what you’ve got. You say you’re confident. Prove it 
That’s all I’ve got for now. Anyone else have a question that only a guy can answer? Post a comment and let me know.
Later,
Henry
Can You Trust Him?
thanks henry for the advice. i was wooried that some boys just go for the boobs but know i know that if a guy really really likes you he wouldnt care about that he would just care of what kind of girl u are!!!
Dear Henry,
i hung out with a guy i had just met and i kinda started to like him just a little. the same night he told me friend that he wanted to makeout with me. All my friends thought that i shouldn’t do it because it would look bad if i didnt get into a relationship. but i don’t think it’s that big of a deal if i don’t lik him that much, but then again i’m not totally sure. what should i do?
Dear Henry,
this year i started 7th garde. most of the guys seem to be pretty normal for the most part. except for a couple who are just really perverted. ive heard that all guys turn perverted in 7th grade because that’s when they hit puberty. is that true? all they want to talk bout is girls? and all they do is masturbate while thinking about girls? i have guy friends that have told me that they do talk about girls a lot, but none have ever told me if they think bout girls negatively or not. so are they all perverted but i just dont know it?
hey henry
i just wanted to say that i agree with jessy do guys, or certain kinds of guys, get annoyed of you/mad/hateful/rageful when girls are on their periods. Not a personal question, just a curious one,
Okay soo Im 14, have a C cup and guys say im pretty. But anyway, some guys might just be scared to ask you out. Youre probably really pretty though so dont worry
Just try to talk to the guys and be as friendly as possible 
Haha Good luck! 
yeah..dont do nythin with which ur nt cumfrtable…
Dear henry,
I was wondering if guys, or certain kinds of guys, get annoyed of you/mad/hateful/rageful when girls are on their periods. Not a personal question, just a curious one
I have a question. has does it feel to be inside a girl during sex? i always wanted to know what makes the vagina so good to a guy.
dear NiaBoo im 16 and had sex it doesnt feel good on the first time being the girl in the sex but it was good to my boyfriend i dont know whats in guys minds but me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago 4 weeks after the sex im saying wait until your ready dont just have sex because other people have and said it was great because you dont want to have to live with that regreat do it when it feels right for you not for the other person make sure its the person you want the first time to be with and make sure you really love the person thats where i went wrong you might think your ready but you never know just make sure you love the person first and you wont regreat it
Well, I’m 13 years old, and I really like this guy. The bad part is, he is my BEST FRIENDS brother. I’ve known him a little over a year, and everybody knows I like him, (including him) but I’m not sure if he likes me. I was wondering if there is any way I will know he likes me. I’m shy, so I don’t want to just go up and ask him. Please help mee
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Love,
Anysaa XXXXX<3 Thankss
try to propose him indirectly…
hey Anyssa
when i was your age i had the same question and he wasnt just my bestfriends brother he was my bestfriends big brother he was 16 3 years older so i will give you the advice i got when i was your age
i was looking for answers just like you
how to be my self with someone who your not ment to love bestfriends brothers
you cant help for likeing someones brother even a best friend
i say be your self and if his worth likeing and then he might like you back i say you should tell your friend about these feelings even though she might not want to hear it even tho everyone knows including him you might need to ask him how he feels before you get hopes up and everything if you have any questions you can email me or ask someone older then you
Deaaaarr Henry,
I have prom in May. I know its kind of early but im real excited…
So I've decided i want to go to prom with this particular guy…. :$ just wondering, in your opinion, what would be a good way to hint that i want him to ask me… and if THAT doesn't work… what's a good way for ME to ask HIM. I have a pretty good sense of humour and can be pretty bold sometimes so don't hold out on the extreme suggestion! 
lotsa love, Ksenia <3
Damnnn we're the same age and you give bjs I mean I came close once but chickened ouut haha I have d breasts and a nice ass-as told by many guys
Dear Henry, I'm 15 and there's this guy I like, and were hanging out playing with and old PDA (PDA?) and he writes in the PDA "I like you, will you be my girlfriend?" and I kinda hesitate because I don't know what to say ( i was going to say yes), and he just says "never mind." REALLY? was he just nervous or being a jerk? Why do you think you would do that? (if you would)
Dear Henry,
How can you tell if a guy likes you. I'm nice, smart, pretty, not fat. So why won't a guy like me. I'm 12 years old and i think that i'm ready to be in a relationship. But 1 thing is, my crush only talks to me only if he's joking. Plus i'm new at my school, So that makes it harder. I have blue eyes, hair that's almost black, but he thinks i'm a nerd because of my glasses.My mom and dad always tell me how ' beautiful' I am. And my friends keep saying how it's better to be single then heart broken. And all of them have dated at least 2-3 guys. 1 has dated all the guys in our grade!!!!!!!!. How can i tell if ANY guy will EVER like me???
givee it time, sometimes it takes a longg time to find a greeat guy .. and even if youur friends have had that many bf’s ^^^ it’s better to have just one that will last for the long term
dear Henry,
Do guys notice when your on your period? I've always wanted to know.
How can I get the guy I don't talk to to notice me if he's 'the good guy'?
Thanks:)
No guy has ever seen that i was on mine. But every guy is different
ALL the guys in my grade some how heard about mine. i havent seen them though b/c i left summer early and while i was gone they found out. i am soooo not looking forward to seeing them nest year. (and its close now. 2 weeks left ’till school starts)
Speaking about "turn-offs"…
I speak my mind about things all the time even when I meet someone new. Some of my friends have said I'm somewhat intimidating. If I try not to say anything then I turn out to be "the weird quiet girl" or just "some girl" or just forgotten. I often try to engage in deeper intellectual conversations maybe even debate something. Basically, I'm not one for chit chat about flavours of ice cream or the logo of a restaurant (yes, that has been a topic once, I put an end to it)
I think that I'm scared that if always speak my mind to start a more intense conversation then I'd hit a sensitive spot and become "the bitch".
Sometimes I think it's best to just smile sweetly like every girl does but I don't want to seem like I'm missing something upstairs.
What I'm asking is… Is being curios about the things that matter in a person's life a turn-off?
Advice?
wooowww u sound just like me. I'd like to get an answer! ha.
Yeaaa! Thats exactly me too!
hey gurlz. i used to have the same problem. the thing is when you always say whats on your mind it makes some gurls feel dumb or dull, the thing to do is to still say what your thinking but sometimes people just want the sypathitic answer. although i do agree restraunt logos is a pretty stupid topic sometimes just lay low and sometime go ahead and speek your mind!! hope this helped. good luck chikas
Hiyahh
I have just got back with my boyfriend we are both 14 i love him so much.
Does every lad want a girl to do stuff with them because my boyfriend is loverly but i dont know if he wants to do stuff im not ready for all that yet but i fink he is an why dosent my boyfriend talk to me or hug me in school ??
Love chloe louise xxxxxxx
i am 14 and i have big boobs and a nice size butt soo a lot of guys do hit on me im ok with doing some things blow jobs ect… but not sex is that a prob to guys or something cuz i have a lot of guys who say that is a prob im not sure anymore so should i just do it
if i were you i wouldn't do something that im not ready for or comfortable with and make sure thats not all your relationship is based on cuz there's more things in a relationship than just sex.
kaayy, it's fine. I'm 18 and stttiill a virgin. and trust me im no ugly duckling
I would just appreciate some respect from guys and i don't like to whore myself out. maybe you shouldn't hangout with these guys anymore they sound like scrubs sweetheart! you'll regret it if you "jjust do it"… SO DONT:) lol
lotsa love, Ksenia
its not such a hot idea to “just go with it”. dont just sell your self short for a couple of dudes. its really not worth it hun. there are sooooo many things that can go wrong with that scene. have some respect for your self and do the things your comfortable and dont do the things your not.