We recently talked about what is considered cheating, but what do you do when the cheating already occurred? And you’re the victim?

cookie142‘s boyfriend cheated on her with another gURL, and now she can’t stop thinking about what this other gURL had that made her boyfriend stray.

Watch my vlog below and tell me if you agree in the comments below! Should she move on in her relationship? Or move on to a new guy?

And don’t forget to email me your questions, thoughts, rants, and desires at askanexpert@gurl.com!

Love,
Lena

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