advice gURL: my sweetie wants to do katy perry!

katy is omnipresent, so what can this gURL do?

Foreverlove101509 from the Shout Out Boards writes:

A few months ago my boyfriend and I were joking about which celebrity we would have sex with if we could; well i couldnt think of anyone cuz i only want him. Well he said Katy Perry. Ever since then I can’t stand her; just seeing her or hearing her name pisses me off. I mean come on she isn’t even attractive? How could I stop thinking about that?

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  • Cat

    There's not a chance in hell he'll get with Katy Perry, so it's okay. You might be a little bit hurt in the self-esteem department, but there's no need to worry. At least he didn't say someone you know personally.

  • Ysa

    You should not stress yourself over Katy Perry, love. I am pretty sure you have at least one person you have sexual fantasies about. It is quite normal, actually. You have nothing to worry about. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Katy Perry does not even know about you and your boyfriend, so there is no sense in letting the thought of her spoil your relationship. Perhaps this has something to do with self-esteem? Pamper and revamp yourself. Be extra gorgeous for your next date with him. You will squeal so loudly inside and forget about the antagonist (Katy who?) as soon as you hear your boyfriend tell you that you are beautiful. ๐Ÿ™‚

    But even without doing that, you should keep in mind that your boyfriend loves you for who you are. Girl, out of the billions of other girls in the world, he chose you. ๐Ÿ™‚ Play a Katy Perry song, sing along with it, let go of all the angst, smile because you beat everyone else (in getting your guy), give yourself a makeover, and blow him away!

    P.S. You are beautiful. You beat Katy Perry. Hah. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Ysa

      *I'm sure there is one person you have sexual fantasies about.

  • lisa

    everyone wants 2 do katy perry. get ova it and just get in line.

  • Sara


    I was havin' a great time with this guy… Which I think I had feelings for…

    And I knew he had them for me too.. and than BAM. I think Katy Perry is gorgeous, I'd marry her. etc, etc, etc, etc.

    I still like her music and stuff.. I mean, it's not like she's a bad person. but. It just IRRITATES me.. badly..

  • shaqnosis

    okay.. so she is a celebrity.

    do you honestly think that he would get with her…?

    its not like he knows her in person.. i would be more concerned if he actually knew a girl and said that he would do her.

    its just kind of like a guy watching porn. he doesnt know those girls, nor will he ever know them.

    dont sweat the small stuff.

  • Madison


    Katie Perry is FUCKING hot… and pretty. Alright? I'm sorry, but it's true.

    Get over your anger! He can't help it, I mean I'm sure there are male celebrities you find sexy.

    Besides, realistically NOTHING will ever happen between her and your boyfriend. I mean, Katie Perry is engaged to Russel Brant and is also famous, there is no way your boyfriend is going to ever have a fling with her. I promise.

    You need to deal with your jealousy before you turn into that horrible, overly jealous girlfriend!

    I hope it all goes okay ๐Ÿ™‚

  • Sarah

    Hey Forever : )

    so lets start by saying , I've been there . Just seeing my boyfriend LIKE another girls picture on facebook sets me off !

    But honestly , I ' ve learned that Jealousy is the ugliest trait , so accept what you see or heard. I know how mad Katy Perry makes you, and maybe you saying that she's not that pretty is out of anger. But understand that just having your boyfriend- which clearly you like so much to get mad at Katy over- is a gift ! Maybe he's attracted to Katy Perry, but you guys WERE joking around, and you can't help who your attracted to, right ? So this sounds crazy : Learn to like Katy . Tell yourself, maybe she IS pretty , but life goes on. and please , LAUGH IT OFF ! If you go on like this , your life won't be the same. Remember, Katy doesn't have your boyfriend, you do. And she's getting married soon so too bad for your boyfriend ! BE THE KATY TO YOUR BOYFRIEND ๐Ÿ™‚

  • jjjjjjjjersey

    well if you asked him which celebrity he would have sex with you can't be mad that he gave you an answer. i agree that katy perry is ditzy and not drop dead gorgeous but she does have a killer bod. the majority of my guy friends think she's so hot (personally i just think they're looking just at her DD boobs!). Just because he thinks she's hot, doesn't mean he'd rather be with her than you. everyone's allowed to have their sexual fantasies…i'm sure you have some too!

  • MT

    i agree shes not that pretty. he might be trying to make you jealous? i dont know but katy perry is really not a good person from what ive seen and if thats the kind of girl he wants to be with then thats not the guy for you! most guys are only after one thing so keep looking til u find 1 worth ur time! im sure you will!

  • jhanae

    gurl dnt be mad at katey perry be mad at hym he is the one that said it in front of u jus talk to hym……….txt bac if u wanna talk bout that or any thing else!!! :~)