Defining what sex is and what sex isn’t is not always so easy. And in the case of technology, things get even more complicated. Sexting, cyber sexing, SkypeSex…all these outlets for sexual expression muddle with what sex is.

And then, there’s the trusty old telephone. But if you’re in a relationship, does engaging in online or “impersonal” sexual activity, whether verbal or typed, constitute cheating? gURL reader metbaby wanted to know!

Watch my vlog below and tell me if you agree in the comments below! What does cheating mean to you?

And don’t forget to email me your questions, thoughts, rants, and desires at askanexpert@gurl.com!

Love,
Lena

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