i’m sick of feeling horny

dear heather,

Do you have any advice for a girl who’s sick of feeling horny? I feel dirty and weird because I want sexual stimulation SO BAD– short of having sex, that is, because I want to be a complete legit virgin until I’m married. Anyway, I read erotic lit online and listen to sex noises, While I’m doing that kind of stuff, I feel great, but afterward I feel awful, even though I know there’s nothing inherently, or even morally, wrong about it.

You’re right, feeling sexually aroused is nothing to be ashamed of. Sexuality isn’t something our society talks about too often, but there are lots of gURLs out there who are interested in sex and think, read, and watch stuff about it all the time. It’s totally normal to go through really horny phases, and there’s nothing wrong with it. Promise, it’ll wear off.

But if you really are sick of it, you can make a conscious effort to stop reading erotic lit and do less sexually-thought provoking activities like exercise. Aerobic activity will release the endorphins that your brain is so loving right now, but it won’t channel itself sexually. And, you’ll find it should help make you a little too tired for sex.

And you didn’t say, and I don’t want to assume that you’re not, but have you ever tried masturbating? It’s a safe way to release pent up sexual feelings without having sex or hooking up.

Whatever you do, stop feeling ashamed. Your feelings are totally, 100% natural and, after all, your body belongs to you.

take care,
heather


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9 Comments

  1. avataraarav says:

    not to worry of getting horny- i just fantasise my favorite female and masturbate – believe me its a great reliever

  2. avatarAlexaa says:

    I barely feel horny , I stopped it for a couple of months but now I’m back again And I literally feel disgusting people say its normal but I don’t think it is I really want to stop
    I masterbait when I feel horny because I don’t want it to get even worse :/ well fuck this shit

  3. avatarHaley says:

    I know! I have the exact problem at the time it feels good but afterwards i feel dirty and discusting im a squirter so I make a mess (lol) I know its Natural to feel this way but I dont I wanna stop because its not even a stress reliever for me I often do it when its nightime and I get so sleepy but I hate it haha hope yu feel better!

    • avatarLarry says:

      Wow! I wish I knew you, Haley. I have seen girls squirt in porn flicks but never in person. I would love to a woman squirt all over my face. WOW! I think that would be so super fantastic! I am so hot right now just thinking about it!

  4. avatarGrace says:

    You’re right to feel bad after watching and listening to erotic material. feeling horny is normal and ok but mastabating is abnormal. Stay a virgin by being a virgin. You can get addicted to mastabation and its also a sin against God.

    • avatarThe Big Man says:

      Masturbation is not a sin against God. And remember if you believe everything those old story books say about going to hell and shit, well, then you won’t enjoy life

      • avatarsomeone out ther says:

        Masterbation is not a sin but it is a unclean habit that according to the bible a person will be if it from if they resist it….

    • avatarLilly says:

      wow, are you for real? Seriously? This is why people think Americans are crazy. And I’m not even an atheist.

  5. avataremma says:

    hey hunni dont worry i all way horny i never feel bad about it but do love it in a way i try masterbating i done it all dont be scared about engjoy weal you can i do have fun hunni

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