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Question: My boyfriend and I were thinking about having sex while taking a bath. Would the water affect anything?
Answer: Well, if you keep at it for a while, your fingers might not be the only thing that get pruney.
You should also know that it’s perfectly safe to have sex in the bath (or shower, or pool), but water can wash away vaginal lubrication. So despite being surrounded by liquid, sex in the water can actually feel dry and uncomfortable. You can deal with this by using a waterproof lube that you apply beforehand, and by making sure to stop if something doesn’t feel good.
What water won’t wash away is an STD or the chance of pregnancy. It’s important to use the same birth control and safer sex methods that you always do when having sex in the water. You can even use a condom in the water, but you and your boyfriend should check it regualrly to make sure it hasn’t slipped off and floated away.
Some people are into having sex in less traditional places, like the bathtub. Others are all about the bedroom. Neither is better or worse. But don’t feel bad if sex in the tub doesn’t turn out to be your thing.
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I dont like sex I fink its discusting awww
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Consequences can be horrible. Do not advise. Water inside the vagina can lead to infection because of introduction of new bacteria and washing off of good bacteria. It might feel wonderful because of the water’s lubrication, but afterwards can be very painful. Infection can even lead to PID which can lead to other problems that are very severe.
I agree with maria,
lol, i don't shave either and surprisingly guys don't really care (i guess they're just happy for a pretty naked girl) girls care more than guys it seems cause they always say how it's weird and gross.
having sex in the shower and bath is good
i dont bother shaving down there, too much work and i tried it, it does itch and burn its annoying as hell. my boyfriend wouldnt mind cuz i would m ake sure before we got together like that i guess. i would feel weird to be all shaved/waxed down there, and you would just have to keep doing it too! thats annoying.
Me and my boyfriend are sexually active and he's into different positions and everything. The only problem I have is that I'm scared and nervous to be on top because I'm new to that and wouldn't know what to do! I'm not lazy or anything and I really want to please him that way too so Gurl, how can I become in control?!?
sex in the bath or shower is amazing!!!!!!!!
I agree with whoever said shaving looks prepubescent! but i also agree with the person who said they prefer the smoother feel, its honestly how comfortable you are and if your boyfriend prefers it well check with yourself and how you feel about shaving before you do it soley for him! its a good thing to experiement with just be careful!
I don't think water would actually get into the vagina if you had intercourse underwater. And as for the shaving debate: Just do what you like best. For lots of girls it's truly not worth the effort. Others really like the smoothness. I personally think it makes you look creepily prepubescent, but that's just me. Plus I hear you need to shave every day or it itches like crazy. And let's not even get into razor burn…
I always thought that it was harmful because the water is being thrusted into the vagina, but that's just me
ohh my sex in the tub is pretty fun and the shower but your rite check that condom cause are came off and i was scared! but im good(:
do we have to shave our bush if were going to have sex or is it o
its not of any harm medically but in case of amount of cl in pool water more than reqd,,then it sometimes leads to irritating eyes wd pain and distorted vision for sometime after swim hour,dryness problem wd skin……
alright first of all of course u shave ur damn bush then second of all its called a condom than third u third graders shouldnt be having sex!!!!
Oh, my husband LOVES sex in the tub. Though when we moved to the new place, the tub isn't big enough, but he will love it. For you, it'll be about the same, maybe even a little more abraisive than usual, but it'll still be a fun sexy-time. ^.^
no i don't think u should feel embrassed. I'm pretty sure he knows what one looks like. Just relax. if u feel u want too then do so. Be honest with him!!
DAMN. Jus be careful about Ur Decision!
so me and my boyfriend want to have sex.
ive talked to my mom about everything and i think i know everything. one question is, should I wax my private part? im too embarrased to ask him, so gurl.. what should I do?
What about the chlorine in the water in the pool? Does THAT affect anything?