i like lesbian porn, am i a lesbian?

dear heather,
I really like guys and can fantasize about them but when I masturbate I enjoy watching lesbian porn or reading lesbian sex stories. I know I’m not a lesbian and wouldn’t want a relationship with girls, I just can’t watch male to female porn. What’s wrong with me?
You can appreciate the female body and not be a lesbian. Maybe what you’re finding is that you like looking at gURLs getting off because you like to picture yourself as them in that scene. You are relating to them in that moment of climax, instead of watching a guy get off when you’re not the one pleasuring him. It might be easier for you to put yourself in her shoes and picture yourself as her, than to picture yourself as that gURL having sex with that guy.

Also, guys in porn aren’t always so hot! And gURLs in porn are so over-the-top that maybe you’re just attracted to the spectacle of them.

Whatever it is, you’re not alone in liking to watch lesbian porn, and it doesn’t have to mean you are a lesbian.

take care,
heather


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2 Comments

  1. avatar Anonymous says:

    And all this time I thought I was alone! Ha.

  2. avatar ashley says:

    i totally preferr lesbians over guys when it comes to watching porn so im with u sister.

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