confession: i thought i was the only virgin left

"When I turned 16, I freaked out because I thought I was the only virgin left. After I graduated high school, I realized that wasn’t really true…"

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  • Mikasa

    17 and a proud virgin. I’m abstinent because:
    1. I wanna find THE ONE, a special someone I wanna share my first time with.
    2. Not ready, I’m kind of scared of pain, and what will happen if I do
    3. I WANNA MAK LOVE not just have sex

    I still wanna fool around with a guy naked. As far as it doesn’t go to far.

  • Collene

    I am 25 and still a virgin and very proud. According to the Holy Bible we are suppose to wait until marriage any ways. Don’t conform. Don’t feel embarrassed. And Especially Don’t give your self away to the wrong person!

  • Elephant

    Be proud that you’re a 16 year old virgin, and don’t let anyone pressure you into giving your virginity away

  • Emmy

    Hey im 12..
    and still a virgin.
    But im glad about that.
    But gosh, everyone in my grade is so sexually perverted.
    They act like sex is just something you do when you want to pleasure your body.
    And there is this guy who has really had sex!
    They dont think about love or how sweet sex is supposed to be!
    Anyone wanna email me so i dont go insane?!
    emmy217@yahoo.com.

  • geet

    i m 18 n i m still a virgin…personally i think wen u "make love" u shud mean it…like u shud do dat wid a person who cares n understands u….i m waitin until i get married…like some1 said virginity z really a spl gift u can giv 2 dat spl person!!!!!!!

  • dassa

    there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. respect urself and wait till ur sure ur readyyy!!!

  • Marian

    Sometimes I worry to about being the only virgin in school but it does not really matter because you know your not ready to have sex. And no one should feel pressure to have sex only if you really want to.

  • Vintage™

    Well I never cared about being the only virgin in school cuz I always knew I wasn't the only one
    But im 18 now and im still a virgin, I dnt believe in that yhu should wait, but I do believe when the time is right and your wit the one you love or lust wateva
    But I never felt awkard about it I was 15 when I had my first kiss and I was in love wit this boy if we ever get together I would give my v-card up 002 him, because I believe he is the deserving one

  • Vintage™

    Well I never cared about being the only virgin in school cuz I always knew I wasn’t the only one
    But im 18 now and im still a virgin, I dnt believe in that yhu should wait, but I do believe when the time is right and your wit the one you love or lust wateva
    But I never felt awkard about it I was 15 when I had my first kiss and I was in love wit this boy if we ever get together I would give my v-card up 002 him, because I believe he is the deserving one

  • Vintage™

    Well I never cared about being the only virgin in school cuz I always knew I wasn’t the only one
    But im 18 now and im still a virgin, I dnt believe in that yhu should wait, but I do believe when the time is right and your wit the one you love or lust wateva
    But I never felt awkard about it I was 15 when I had my first kiss and I was in love wit this boy if we ever get together I would give my v-card up 002 him, because I believe he is the deserving one

  • Vintage™

    Well I never cared about being the only virgin in school cuz I always knew I wasn’t the only one
    But im 18 now and im still a virgin, I dnt believe in that yhu should wait, but I do believe when the time is right and your wit the one you love or lust wateva
    But I never felt awkard about it I was 15 when I had my first kiss and I was in love wit this boy if we ever get together I would give my v-card up 002 him, because I believe he is the deserving one

  • bri

    I lost my virginity when i was 13..
    i'd been going out with this guy and 3
    months into it i felt like it was the right time….well right now you're probably thinking i regret it, but not at all..It's been two years since we've been dating and we're still going strong. age doesnt matter..its when you know yourself that you are ready for it, and to accept the responsibilities that come with sex.

  • Cassondra

    OMG yes! All of my friends where having sex and I was the only one that wasnt. All of my friends had boyfriends and I didnt. It made me feel so weird. I felt like I had to have sex because all of my friends where. They where always talking about it and I never had anything to say when they where talking about sex. It all just made me feel weird.

  • jane

    I am 19 and in university and still a virgin. I do feel kind of crappy about it sometimes but other times I feel okay. I've only been in one actual relationship and that was when I was 16 and he was 18. He turned out to be a total tool though and looking back I'm so glad I had enough sense not to give in to his pressures and do it because I was so not ready then, and I would have lost my virginity to an ass and regretted it forever! Pretty much all my romantic experiences with guys have been crap lol so I get those days where I think no man on earth deserves to take my virginity! Where are the decent men! But I haven't given up on falling in love, yet lol. I'm basically just waiting to fall madly in love! Like its not even about sex really for me, since I have the sex drive of like a blade of grass (for real lol i just dont know) I just need to meet a decent guy! But alas that is hard for me since I still get nervous around guys! But I feel one day I will meet the perfect awkward weirdo for me! That's what I'm waiting for!
    Hope this helped any other girls who feel remotely the same! 🙂

  • joanie

    Im 17.im so glad im still a virgin! I used to have a bf it was while ago. I was goin to give it up to him b/c he was so sweet but he broke up with me.He said he wanted to break up b/c i didn't see him enough. But I kno it was b/c i didnt/wasnt having sex with him. Then shit got worse and some of our friends didn't like me. we wer friends before we bacame bf,gf. Anyways now we kinda talk again. i think he realized it was stupid what happnd btwn us. But I also had calld him and told him i was sorri. But i mean whatevr FRIENDS R waymore IMPORTANT to me. though i have to say he still looks SOO HOT!!!=]

  • joanie

    Im a virgin!Tmrw on Oct.18 im gonna be 17. And I feel a little crappy that im still a virgin just b/c my sistr is 22 and we talk about her sex life. And she talks about sex with her guy friends when im around. But, im really open-minded & i like how I can talk about sex with her without feeling weird. Howevr some ppl at my schl, sex is like that only subject they kno. Anyways there is this kid that i like but im like 99.9% positive that he's a major player. I always like players. But, Im so glad that i havent giving it up! LOTS OF WILLPOWER BABY!

  • i'm a virgin but way more horny than alot of ppl i know who aren't, which is kinda strange

  • jazzy

    Firstly som3 of these stories are impressing .being said I'm 17 and I graduated h.s and still a virgin.I'm the only one out of my friends that are.they are proud and feel lik3 I'm doing realli gud.just to hear that makes me feel alrite.some people would tease there friends if they were.some advice don't worry what others are doing or saying becauze there the ones who most likely have kids or get an std.I'm not waitin till marriage just wen I feel the time is right and if someon3 dosent respect that …Dump him/…he's not worth takin ya innocence and being regretful.