confession: i thought oral sex was when people talked dirty to each other

"When I was in fifth grade I heard a rumor about a girl giving oral sex to her boyfriend. I thought oral sex was when people talked dirty to each other."

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  • jojo00

    When I was 8 or 9 I heard in TV they saying oral sex. My mum turned red and turned off the TV. I thought that if sex was with the genitals, oral sex was with the mouths, i mean, kissing. Pure innocence.

  • char x

    i gave oral sex to the random dude who i met at break at school what made it fun and adventuros was it was in my school forest

  • char x

    i gave oral sex to the random dude who i met at break at school what made it fun and adventuros was it was in my school forest

  • lucii

    ive had it wiv my besstie but she started it im not a lezz but its bloody fab

  • marian

    noW i knOw …whaT the oraL sex..meann..
    gOsh…tnx..but i dOnt want to trY..it..duhh..
    its sucks!

    • tsc

      literally..lol..get it? “it sucks” (it being oral sex)

  • Tiffany

    For the girls at the top having oral sex with a cousin is absolutly disguisting!!!!!!!

  • Lucy

    OMG i also used to think it was when u said dirty things then i realized it was cybering. I have never given or received and personally i think thats kind of gross I'm 13 and i think it's weird to have some guys c*ck in your mouth then getting cum in their ewwwwww my opinion though. Who would want stuff in their mouth?!?!

  • jenna

    I'VE HAD ORAL SEX WITH MY SECOND COUSIN ON MY DAD'S SIDE.IT WAS AMAZING!!!!!WE DID IT ON A WASHING MACHINE IN HIS BASEMENT. HE IS AN ORAL SEX GOD AND OFFICIALLY MY SEX BUDDY. I'M GOING OVER TO HIS HOUSE AGAIN TONIGHTAND I HOPE WE HAVVE MORE THAN ORAL SEX.

    • LunaticCity

      Cousin? That’s kinda… Um wrong I would say =/ But hey… If it’s all consensual I won’t judge… To harshly…

    • Emma

      What is oral sex

  • ALEX

    i've never given oral sex but i have recieved it. it was over last thanksgiving and i was watching a dirty movie with my 19 year old cousin (i'm fourteen) and he just pulled my skirt off and started licking my vagina. (everyone was asleep) it tickles at first but the longer it lasts, the more you enjoy it.when we see each other now, we just kinda smile at each other. no awkwardness or anything.IT WAS AHMAZZING! a lot moaning. coming from me.

  • Person

    I have not given oral sex but i have recived! It feels AMAZING!!! oral sex is when the mouth touchs the genitals. i hope this helps!

  • Katie

    Haha I used to think it was people talking dirty to each other…
    My poor innocence. It's been taken a toll on.
    I've never done oral or had it done to me… and truthfully it sounds kinda nasty… but I guess I'll just have to find out for myself, won't I?

  • Marian

    Oral sex is something I never understood I thought at first it was just making out but it is not.
    I have sucked a guys penis and trust me it is not fun its only fun to the guy you are giving it to.
    But when a guy is licking your croch the feeling is soo good you wont believe it!!!!!!!!
    But try it your self and you will see.

  • Nikia

    Oral sex is def. not gross i think its a bridge we all have to come across…… like death. I have never gave oral but i reccieved and lemme tell ya its fucin phenominal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • brianna

    will 2 me its gross and i dont understand y people do it its gross

  • wdfwfyevytuvewqf

    ive given and gotten it feels good

  • Cambrie

    Intercourse is sex, oral sex is when mouths touch the genitals, not genital to genital.