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Question: OK, so I’m not sure if I am pregnant. I haven’t taken a test yet and we always used a condom but my period is pretty late … Has anyone ever gone through something like this? Should I tell him now I think I might be pregnant, or wait until I take a test? I’m really nervous because if I have to get an abortion I want him to come with me and I’m scared he’ll hate me and I’ll have to do it alone.
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This happened to me earlier this year, you should definitley wait untill after the test. If you are pregnant tell him as soon as possible and tell him you want an abortion. If he really loves you he'll stick by you.
YES! WAIT UNTIL AFTER YOU TAKE THE TEST…
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The way a guy will take the information differs from guy to guy. Some will be by your side the whole time. Other "boys" will see it as the end of their future.
When me and my ex went to the doctor because we thought she was prego we found out some useful information.
Take a calendar and mark when you start and end your period. Throughout the year you will see that a regular period can actually fluctuate. This could mean periods are farther apart (some cases months apart) to just a few weeks and also in how long they can last (some girls are lucky and only have 3-5 day periods).
But to be safe just by an ept or similar test.
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If you belive the guy will be mad at you or leave you because you're pregnant, you prolly should not be wit him
Yeah so i go through the same thing as you do like every 4 months. That little "scare" it drives me crazy. Don't mention anything until you are for sure pregnant.. because boys take this thing seriousley and once you've told them they're already into the whole zone.
You might just be having a really late period because of severe excersise changes..stress.. or even because you're hanging around different people (The girls around you effect you pyschologically)
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I have been through a sacre myself and it isn't nice but I told my partner before I took the test and he stood by me 110%. It is seriously upto you what you do but it is always easier if you can talk to someone. Me and my partner are now expecting baby gil in may and i couldn't be happier but if i had been pregnant back then I wouldn't have though twice about having an abortion. It is each to ther own girl but if you want my honest oppinion I would talk to ur bf x
hey i agree anyone in this situation hould talk to hier boyfriends or a close friend it is really hard to take care of a child im only 18 i've been with my boyfriend since i was ten a long time but i love it and i had sex when i was 15 and it was planned and perfect so to girls who are still virgins take your time wait till your 100% ready and in a staedy relationship always usea condom and protect your self because a baby is the least of your worries no one wants to have hiv or std even a baby isn't good but u et hiv and your life is ruined so please use my advice and take care and respect your body its so important but do enjoy sex is a very special thing when done with the right person please comment back xxxx