I have great friends and I should be happy but I am not. I like to go hang out with fun people and at first they were fun, but, well, all they want to do are things that don’t deal with people now. I personally am a big socialite and I like to meet new people often, I sometimes feel that my friends hold me back by not doing more fun things. We live in a big city and there are plenty of things to do on the weekends, I just can’t get them away from our little suburb and into the nightlife. Is there any advice on how to get them to do more without seeming pushy?
You might also want to consider planning some sort of “exciting” event for your friends and yourself. By planning something, you may be able to take away some of the reservations that your friends may have about a trip to the city being a hassle or annoyance, and hopefully they will have a good time and realize sometimes these things are worth the effort. It might also be that your friends are more intimidated by new situations, so anything you can try to do to make them feel more comfortable might be helpful in getting them more excited about new people, places etc. You might also need to be patient with them for a while and try to understand why it is that they do not want to get out more.
It’s always good to try to work through things with your friends, but if it turns out that they just won’t budge, you might want to work to turn the new people you are meeting into closer friends. You just want to make sure that you don’t let your current friendships hold you back from all the things you want to do. And luckily you can keep both new and old friends.