I just wanted to email you to ask you how exactly do you kiss someone? I mean tongue kiss, French kiss, or neck someone. This is kinda embarrassing ’cause I know everyone knows how to tongue kiss and I am the only one who doesn’t. I am afraid to ask my friends. They all know how and might make fun of me. I have only had two bfs and they dumped me because I didn’t kiss right? I tried! That’s why I don’t get into relationships, because know I can’t kiss and I don’t wanna show everyone my bad side!
If you are with the right person it will feel pretty good, no matter how you are doing it. Especially if you relax into it a little. Even though you say you don’t want to show people your bad side, there’s no reason to avoid kissing if you are with someone you want to kiss who also wants to kiss you. If you feel strange about it, maybe tell the other person you’d like to practice different techniques.
It’s a good idea not to compare your kissing techniques and strategies with your friends, though. Everyone is different, and what works for them and their crushes or significant others isn’t necessarily what will feel good with the person you like and are kissing.